By JPTK - 17/06/2012 16:08 - United Kingdom - Newark
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OP CLARIFICATION TIME!!!!! A *month* ago, me and my ex broke up as I was moving away, 3 days later she got drunk and had rebound sex with some guy. Talking to my best mate, he said we should go on a lads holiday around Europe to get over our exs etc. (He broke up with his around the same time). Y'know - meet some girls, work on our tan, drinks on the beach, you know the drill! Yesterday, when we were supposed to book, he told me he had to pull out as he'd gotten back with his ex and wanted to go on holiday with her. That is why FML.
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Another man that's a dick bag. My ex just broke up with me because I was too "nice" to him. And you broke up with your girlfriend to go find willing ******. Men need to just be happy with what they have.
And people like you (yeah, "people," not "girls") need to dump the sexist generalizations and actually get to know someone inside and out before dating them.
Men are happy with what they have. It's boys like this who give us a bad name.
82 - way to go calling a 14 year old girl all of those disgusting names! Bastard
I've known the kid for four years.
I'm not a sick piece of shit. I HAVE dated nice guys. And obviously I shouldn't be attracting douchebags because I was dumped for being NICE. Not because I did anything wrong. And you don't know me. Don't make assumptions. I'm not a moron, either. Definitely not. I can give you reasons if requested.
Oh wow, she's 14? I didn't check her profile, cause you know, the way she was talking about "men" and having dated more than one, I naturally assumed she was old enough to have some real experience of the world. If she knows ANYTHING about men, rather than boys/kids her own age, then that's heavily implying statutory rape, which I guess explains why she has such a sick, warped view of the entire male gender. TLDR: You're 14. You know nothing about men, and probably only barely more about boys. It's like talking about "people these days" when you've only been alive for a day.
I've gone through a lot more than a fourteen year old should. But you're still an ass for talking to a girl that way, no matter what age I am. I've had a total for three boyfriends, this one being the longest, and I was treated like crap. I made a huge mistake. Men was used as a term of respect.
You also have no right to judge me. You know nothing about me or my life experiences.
Kendall, you do not have to justify yourself to that bully. He's obviously a short little man with a chip on his shoulder about women. Just ignore his nasty comments and stay strong girl. X
Thank you! And I didn't say anything particularly MEAN about men. They just need to appreciate what they have. I didn't say women didn't have to.
Zandalee- Go fawn over someone else, you sad little creep. Kendal- If you hadn't totally generalized ALL MALES, I'd be more sympathetic. I don't care what a person's been through, when you spew sexism I have no respect for you. You say you didn't say anything MEAN about men, but you're still generalizing all of us and making a mockery of women's rights in the process, by doing the same thing our misogynistic ancestors did to women. If you want some friendly advice, I'd say try to remember that kids your age are flooded with hormones and generally aren't the smartest people alive. Mood swings, horny all the time, etc. But if you want a new boyfriend, this Zandalee guy seems to have a crush on you. I say you two PM each other and have it off.
Wow. What a sad little **** u r dominatrix. Go slither back under your rock
They have a private profile, there's no way of knowing if it's a boy or girl. But anyway! I've just had...bad experiences with boys/men. It's really hard for me to trust anyone but my father, honestly.
Zandalee- Watch the language, tough guy. You're setting a bad example for the young folks around here, and that goes as much for your grammar as it does your foul mouth. Thumbing yourself up just makes you look insecure. Kendal- I'm sorry you've had bad experiences. Just remember that when you dig around in the mud, you're going to find worms. You won't find many great examples of guys at your age, but in time you will.
And I also have to kiss a lot of frogs before I get my prince! Thank you. /:
Dominic I am a mum with a fourteen year old daughter, that's why you pissed me off. I'm very protective of young girls. They just have to grow up too fast.
Thank you so much! At least someone cares enough to defend me.
No worries hun. Go with your instincts. If it smells like a rat, talks like a rat and treats you badly; it a rat. Run. Lol. Wish you the best.
Thank you, so much.
That's not true at all. IF you look carefully and get to really understand someone BEFORE you kiss them, you'll know whether or they are a prince or a toad. Move slower. I have had no problems with men and have no problems trusting, because I chose people who were trustworthy. I've had the same number of boyfriends as you, but I am three times your age. My love life has been wonderful.
This was my first serious boyfriend. I've known him since I was in grade school. We reunited in high school, and we hit it off. He turned out to be a different person than I thought he was.
MEN??? Seriously, you're 14. I haven't even had a boyfriend yet.
What does you not having a boyfriend yet have to do with her? I'm almost 19 and just got my first boyfriend. You just have to make sure they are good ones before you agree to go out with them. I'm sorry your boyfriend turned out to be an asshole. They aren't all like that. Don't worry.
Yes, I'm 14. In the tenth grade. So the **** what. I haven't dated a man, but I'm talking about men in general. And just because you haven't had a boyfriend, doesn't mean I can't. Just because I haven't had sex yet, doesn't mean no one else can. Same with driving, etc, etc.
70- i get what you mean as i have bad experiences im 16 and with a 19 yr old now hes lovely some men in my case are nice its jus people 15 and under who are immature who give them a bad name. Dom- dont get worked up about it, it was an opinion plz dont say stuff like that to one another x
dads are the best! i dont have one anymore sadly but they are and omg your name reminds me of nevershoutnever, awesome!!!!
You guys are ******* idiots. Especially you.
kill yourself
That has to be one of the most selfish things I have ever read..if there was something wrong with your relationship, then fine-be an adult and move on. To break up with some for the sole purpose of having multiple guilt free holiday hookups is disgusting. And p.s- those hookups weren't even a sure thing... You were hoping to meet someone-and I hope for their sake that they are smart enough to avoid you.
It's like you read my mind. I hate when people give no-good reasons to dump someone.
Isn't he seriously breaking the Bro Code? He should immediately be banished. Pull his man card.
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You deserve it. Why break up with your girlfriend just to pick up other chicks? You're kind of an asshole.
Why would you do that in the first place? It doesnt make any sense. YDI