By lellow_171 - 19/11/2012 01:47 - United States - Peoria
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I'm OP. And here is the background. I did something stupid, he broke up with me earlier in the week but had told a friend of mine he'd consider getting back together if we talked about it, so I thought me getting back into counseling and us talking about it was fixing things. I don't think he knew it was break-up sex when we had it, but our pillow talk turned into him breaking up with me once again. I still love him, and he has always been great. I just blew things and when I thought they were being fixed, they actually weren't. So in a sense I deserve it, since he didn't really know it was break-up sex until he broke up with me a second time, right after the sex. So that was awesome. Sucks even more that it happened during the busiest week of school for the year (busier than finals for me). So all of my grades are being determined while I'm trying to get over a boy, and going back to counseling for major depression. AWESOME.
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OhDearBetrayal
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I'm not for the practice, but hey if it's something that happens often enough to be talked about by the majority there must be some kind of reasoning behind it.
Lately i feel like the act of break up sex is nothing more than a boost to the male ego. If you have any doubts to to that there's plenty of fml's here to support the theory, for example the one where the guy broke up with OP but still asked her when the sex will be.
astralvagan
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You could always **** his best friend. It might not be right, but neither is what he did
Kallian_fml
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Hmmm, yes, why doesn't she degrade herself even more?
astralvagan
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How is that degrading?
I'm pretty sure sleeping with somebody to get revenge is not only desperate but also pathetic.
SApprentice
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You should never have sex with someone for any reason other than the pleasure of it or love, with the people involved understanding and agreeing to why the sex is taking place. Sex is not meant to be used as a weapon. 20 is right, it would be degrading for her to have intercourse with his best friend just to get back at him- it just makes her look worse, exposes her to unnecessary risks, and in the end would just cause her more woe. It's not right.
Though I agree with you wholeheartedly, and would never sleep with someone that I didn't feel romantic propinquity with, who are you to say what others should and should not do with their bodies? We all have different views and morals, you "should" respect that, sir or madam.
Well atleast he didnt slap you with the used condom after the amazing sex.
klovemachine
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Nice :)
Well, it could be worse ways to end a relationship. But he should have made sure you knew you were breaking up...
Break up sex takes 2 people. It's not just the guy wanting it. Lets not forget that.
I agree normally 28, but this case is different. I feel sorry for OP having been thinking it's just make up sex!
Because he's a male and he likes sex. There's no way OP would of slept with him if he broke up with her before asking for sex. He probably just wanted a quick one just in case he won't be getting any for a while.
Break-up sex is, in fact, way better than make-up sex. Sad but true.
that's hoodwinking pure and simple unless one or the other wasn't very clear about the ending of the fight.
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Your boyfriend is a dick.
Ah, yet another woman complaining about an asshole breaking up with her. You should be out celebrating the fact that you're free of this cretin who doesn't have the decency to be honest with you.