By MulticoloredSlug - 13/10/2016 10:57 - United States - Philadelphia

Today, my boyfriend and I were getting heated. We were having a lot of fun until I decided I wanted to be on top. He instantly got soft. FML
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Dat_Class_Tho 26

Maybe the last time he tried cowgirl (previous relationship), they didn't know how to do it right and accidentally bent his business at a painful angle. Or maybe he's a control freak who can't get it up unless he's in the dominant position. You should probably talk it out and see if it's just a silly/embarrassing story he never told you, or something you actually need to be worried about.

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polsen4273 8

A quick transition might help in the future. Or you could start with oral unitll he is hard and keep your hand on it during the transition. Either way a quick transition will be key.

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Real4Real 11

Communication fixes most issues/problems and if not entirely, it will at least give way more insight than just letting your imagination run wild or strangers to influence you

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bronson1028 8

blow flow could be a problem. the penis is up which makes it harder to get blood through and a penis is made of soft spongy tissue and needs a good blood flow in order to get hard.

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CastaP 12

Talk it out, that is always the way to go, ALWAYS.

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MulticoloredSlug 18

Hey guys! So I hate when there's an FML left unanswered, so I'm going to explain a little bit and hopefully answer your questions. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years, basically middle school sweet hearts, and we were each other's first everything. He had never been with anyone, nor have I. We've also been having coitus for the last 4 1/2 years, so it's nothing new to us. He used to beg me to be in top, because that's a fun position for guys I guess.. but I was never into it. I'm really self conscious about my body, and something about taking control made me extremely nervous. Well lately I've been feeling a little bit more confident with being on top, and then this happened. Twice. He's probably going through a lot considering he's in college right now and super stressed, plus unlike that one guy said, it wasn't a quick transition. We were having coitus, but then I got up for a couple minutes, and got something to drink. I guess in that little span of time he and his body were done. It still didn't make me feel good about myself, but we've been through so much as a couple, this is hardly anything to worry about.. I probably will say something eventually. Thanks everybody!

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Bloodyskull 13

Another question is why would you get up in the middle of intercourse and leave? Isn't that a slight bit disrespectful?

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MulticoloredSlug 18

Not disrespectful at all. I guess being in a relationship as long as we have, we don't think much of it.

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tounces7 27

Not disrespectful, but it's actually not surprising at all that he went soft if you simply got up and left for awhile. Penises need attention to stand at attention.

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ThrottleJockey 35

Maybe cowgirl butts don't drive him nuts.

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cuz803 44

Guess he's jealous that a female wants to be dominate. Slap him with a feminism book

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t0tal_newb 4

Girls on top are the best. The guy doesn't have to do any work ?

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