The way I view this FML: He started talking to her calmly about her weight because he's concerned for her, she got defensive and angry and an argument ensued. I can imagine her being difficult to reason with, and the argument getting more heated with her insulting and demeaning him until she says "Are you saying you don't love me because I'm fat and unattractive" and him then saying "I do love you but honestly I wouldn't find you attractive the way you are now if I didn't know you" And then she goes and bitches to FML so everyone here can hate on him as well. Everyone here is assuming the worst on the guys part, I'm just going to assume the worst on hers. DONE!

this man is so shallow.... Run

Dude dump him hes a doushe lol

YFDI For Letting Yourself Go.

I hate reading these fat fml's, but I force myself to read the comments just to see how hateful we humans are. Granted theres a different between average weight and overweight, i'm 5'11" and almost 20 pounds overweight (im losing it anyway), but these comment's show how we are really shallow people. Op dont listen to most of these commentators, lose weight not to look attractive to you ass of a boyfriend, but to be healthy, you can do it, I don't know you in real life. but I think you can pull it of. :)

this reminds me of that movie Shallow Hal

No excuses. Eat properly and exercise you lazy cow. I would dump a bitch that got fat on me. My lady puts a lot of effort into her appearance and I appreciate it. On the flip side there is you, who gave up on herself. Your boy friend deserves better.

That's his way of politely asking you to lose weight or he may leave you

Sounds like a keeper to me!

its a true statement though. atleast the guy is honest enough to tell how he really feels whether its good or bad!