the guy is a dick but then again, he is also just giving you an honest opinion. he could have worded it a bit less dickish and you have every right to look however you want to. dont go on a diet they just starve you until your skinny then when you quit the diet cuz your skinny you get fat again. just find a fun way to exercise. so many people just say "hes just giving his honest opinion and looks do count in a relationship and bla bla bla bullshit asswipe bitch" i agree that looks do count to a certain degree but unless its gotten to the point where he is disgusted to look at you or is actually not attracted to you because of how you look then it is not a problem. but if there is anything you should take away from this rant is that you should exercise somehow if you dont already

Ydi lose some weight..

Y do most chicks decide to let themselves go when they've been in a relationship for a while?

well, looks like it's time to dump that ahole.

I'd tell him to shove off! I am a big girl myself, just under 13stone, but I still do my hour workout every day and take care of myself. I'm not desperate to be skinny, just treat my body right and keep myself active. so if any man came at me with that attitude, nah man, gone!!

Well if he met you thin, then I kinds see why he wouldnt want you bigger, you shouldnt let yourself go just because you have a boyfriend..

Diet, exercise, get really sesy looking, then dump him.

Ya **** your life because a guy loves you even though your fat, Selfish ****.

She might not even be fat. It could just be him being an ass.

Speaking as a girl who has been overweight her entire life, being fat sucks and when you grow up with it being your lifestyle, it's extremely difficult to change over to what most people consider normal and healthy. But for people who start out skinny and THEN get fat? Why the **** would you do that to yourself? Speaking for myself, this way of living ******* sucks. If I wanted to be in the normal range, I'd have to eat only salads and work out almost 24/7 and do that for THE REST OF MY LIFE to stay thin; that's how shitty my metabolism is. Being in a relationship DOES NOT give you license to let yourself go. It's not hard to maintain your weight; even while being overweight, I've managed to stay within 10-15 pounds of the same weight since I was 13, and I'm 21 now. I can't stand seeing girls who are skinny who gain a bunch of weight because they simply become lazy as **** and stop giving a shit. There is no excuse for that. Being fat sucks, and I wouldn't wish this kind of life on anyone. The end.