See this is the problem here - Not just people who think everybody should be RAIL THIN but also people who think any suggestion of losing weight is an implication of wanting somebody to be rail thin, both extremes are wrong. I'm not attracted to model thin girls, it's disgusting to me - If I take a girl out to dinner and she only orders a salad I probably wont call her back. However, if I start dating a 5'4 girl whose around 120lbs [thin but with curves and some weight] and she starts to pack on 40lbs of course she's going to here about it. It's just as bad being thin and thinking because you found somebody you can let yourself go. In the same respect, though, as I'm a thin and in shape guy that works out all the time if I suddenly have a beer gut and get lazy with my workouts I expect to hear about it as well. There is nothing wrong with being honest with somebody you're in love with as long as it's done objectively AND tactfully - I'm willing to bet his discussion with her was a bit more tactful [and likely brought up by her saying "I look so fat"] than the FML implies - FMLs are over exaggerated to make them a bit more funny.

^ this. 112... pro.

I'm going to try to say this tactfully, but you have no room to condemn someone else's looks or physical features. You think the guy is "sweet and committed" for telling his girlfriend that if he could turn back the clock, he wouldn't be with her if she looked the way she does now? You really have no clue about life or love. I hope the University of Oregon teaches Common Sense 101.

I'm going to try to say this tactfully, at least she has a picture (and don't say how I don't have one either I'VE NEVER COMMENTED ON ANYONE'S PHOTO unless I found it really funny) she looks fine to me. Plus that is NOT what the boyfriend said he's being quite honest people don't seem to like that,

Your hot!