Addendum: I make no apology and will acknowledge no chastising for my viewpoint. It is purely opinion, as is YOUR view of how a relationship is supposed to work. If you disagree, that is your problem, not mine. To restate: OP Deserves it for letting herself go, thereby removing one of the qualities that attracted her bf in the first place.

If it's a relationship that is supposed to last a long time, and it's based on looks, it wont last. Eventually looks go. Unless you die young, I guess. I plan on living a very long life, which means Ill gain weight, Ill lose weight and Ill get wrinkly :) It's going to be wonderful!

I have seen women who are very attractive well into their 50s WITHOUT surgery. If you care for your body properly, you will be attractive. Using aging as an excuse is a cop out. That aside- when one has aged enough that looks no longer matter, looks no longer matter- the hormones calm down eventually. But 20's, 30's, and 40's, blood still runs quite hot, And it's no more fair to be stuck with someone who doesn't attract you physically than it is to be stuck with someone who doesn't support your emotional needs or stimulate you intellectually. And it's no less of a valid reason to end a relationship than the other two are. If you disagree? Again, opinion. Your problem, not mine. Stick with people who share yours.

Actually, genetics are a much bigger help than taking care of yourself. What's the old saying? Look at the mom, that's what the girl is going to look like. Genetics are a MUCH bigger factor. I know women that look amazing that don't do anything. There are other's who do everything and look like crap. Personally, I'd rather find someone that I can spend my life with a lot sooner than 40 when Im over it. If I just wanted to go out and get laid, looks are what I'd base it on. It's not hard to get laid. Finding someone who you can enjoy being around is much more difficult. I can kick a one night stand out after I'm done with them. Luckily, for me, I found someone I think is extremely attractive, but who also can stimulate my mind and my sense of humor. Someone I can be around every day and not get tired of. Someone who doesn't care if I gain or lose weight. I also don't care if HE gains weight. I learned from my ex, perfectly chiseled bodies usually don't have a whole hell of a lot going on upstairs. That or they're just plain obsessed with their bodies. No thanks.

you are a ******* ****** no one cares about ur life. its called friends thats who ur supposed to tell about all of the cool things in ur life and now brag on a website stupid bitch go hang out with ur boyfriend on world of warcraft you cheap peice of crap

that joke is so old it makes me feel young

Agreed. I doubt it has anything to do with your cheeks.