Jealousy, Sextoys and Intimacy: Today, my boyfriend stayed over at my place for the first time....

By Anonymous - 15/04/2014 16:37 - United States - Erie

Today, my boyfriend stayed over at my place for the first time. I left him in the bedroom for a couple of minutes while I used the toilet, and when I came back, he was holding my vibrator. He angrily asked me, "What the hell is this? You know this is cheating, right?" FML

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By Anonymous - 23/08/2013 23:30 - United States

Today, my boyfriend dumped me for "cheating" on him by using a vibrator. FML

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By Anonymous - 14/03/2013 16:59 - Germany - Dortmund

Today, my girlfriend and I were going to get intimate, so I masturbated before leaving my place, hoping it would help me last longer than usual. 10 minutes in, she shoved me off and started screaming at me, convinced that I've been cheating on her and practising with someone else. FML

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By WTF? - 01/04/2011 15:55 - United Kingdom

Today, I caught my boyfriend secretly using my hair straightener while I was in the other room. Too embarrassed to talk to him about it, I left and came back later, only to discover him slipping on a pair of my panties. FML

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By crazygirl - 29/10/2009 06:42 - United States

Today, my boyfriend and I realized that the vibrator we bought got sent to his parents house. He picked it up from them, brought it home, and we discovered that they had already opened the package. They even tried to hide the evidence by re-taping it. FML

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By O-|---<=~ - 18/10/2013 23:01 - United States - Bellingham

Today, my otherwise lovely boyfriend of a month showed his true colors. He freaked out when he learned that I use tampons instead of pads. He yelled that using them is like cheating on him, because his penis is the only thing that should ever enter me. FML

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By Elizabeth Ann - 19/08/2018 03:30

Today, I came home to find my boyfriend playing with himself. He got mad and said I "killed the mood". How? By coming home. FML

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By 504-A1 - 11/05/2012 22:02 - Canada - Barrie

Today, I was having phone sex with my boyfriend. Trying to be sexy, I told him what I was doing with my vibrator. I heard a loud bang, followed by him shouting, "Why don't you just fucking marry it, then?!" and then hanging up. FML

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By Anonymous - 29/01/2022 05:01

Today, my boyfriend asked me to use a sex toy on him. Am I in the wrong relationship? FML

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By 181999 - 14/09/2013 20:47 - United States - Essex Junction

Today, I went to my boyfriend's apartment for the first time, only to see another girl walking out. I accused her of cheating with him and we got into a fight. Turns out I was at the wrong apartment. He lives next door. FML

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Ammo

By Ms.rain - 07/12/2018 12:30

Today, my boyfriend went through my phone while I was in the bathroom, to check if I was cheating. I'm not. He was looking for some leverage for when he told me he's been fucking my best friend for the last year, he could use something against me. FML

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Welshite 39

Wednesday 16 April 2014 2:15

I hope you pointed angrily at his hand.

chocolatefrog28 29

Wednesday 16 April 2014 2:22

Tell him he's actually the other man, and you're already in a meaningful relationship with your vibrator but you're willing to be friends with benefits.

Comments

rocker_chick23 27

Wednesday 16 April 2014 5:11

Talk to him and tell him masturbation is normal. If he still says it's cheating, dump him.

crystalnight 19

Wednesday 16 April 2014 5:12

**** is cheating too with that kind of mindset. Wonder how many times he's cheated on you?

JKPwnage 27

Wednesday 16 April 2014 5:15

I wouldn't consider it cheating, I would consider it practice

BadKitty13 28

Wednesday 16 April 2014 5:26

Well he sounds like a major idiot...... and an asshat for snooping in your stuff. Time for a trade in ....

DanielleinDC 33

Wednesday 16 April 2014 5:33

Your boyfriend is either an idiot or an asshole. Doesn't he **********? If so, how does he not consider that cheating? Is it okay because it's his hand? And unless you left your toy out in the open, you also need to talk to him about respecting your privacy and refraining from snooping. He can accept the fact that you ********** or he can get lost.

numberswoman 14

Wednesday 16 April 2014 5:33

First of all, he's an idiot. Secondly, why was he going through what I assume was your nightstand's drawer?

weveallbeenthere 30

Wednesday 16 April 2014 5:35

he's dumb as a stump. unless he has very religious beliefs, then he's just an idiot.

DanielleinDC 33

Wednesday 16 April 2014 14:11

If he has very religious beliefs, I doubt he'd be staying at his girlfriend's place. I'm going to assume that she left him in the bedroom while she went to the bathroom because they were about to have sex. I don't know of any religious person who would frown on masturbation but be okay with premarital sex.