edit: its an invasion of your daughter's privacy and you're basically be gossiping about her. what a great parent you are! this is just as bad a deed as your daughter's.

FAIL

I didn't read all the comments, but I'm a psych major and in Adolescence Psych right now. The average age for teens to start having sex is age 11. It's very scary.

hey i am 22 and a virgin! thts not old lol ..anws thats crazy haha but alot of my sisters friends at that age had sex

um, to number 170? where did you get the number 11? from what i've heard the average age for girls is 16.5, and guys is 17. 11 seems ridiculously young...is that maybe a worldwide number?

Woah, what'd you do?! Don't feel excessively guilty, teenagers are going to do what they want (not that you shouldn't atleast discourage them from doing bad stuff). They will find a way, and telling them over and over "DON'T HAVE SEX" is going to make them want to do it more, just out of defiance. Instead, educate her/any other children you may have on the physical/emotional responsibilities and consequences of having sex.

#168... It's annonymous, what difference does it make? It's really not an invasion of privacy...

To #156: I'm 19 years old, nearly 20, have had a 3 year relationship already (ironically, he got mad because I WOULDN'T sleep with him), and am currently dating someone I've known for five years. We just had our six month anniversary together. "I'm disgusted with teenagers". Because you never were one? You never rebelled? And of course, I'm sure you think we're all ****** and sleeping around with everyone we meet? I'm nearly 20, and still a virgin. My parents brought me up with decent morals, but I've had the opportunity, if I wanted it. I'm waiting until marriage. Before you start whining about how much teenagers suck, think about your sorry self being on an FML site and leaving comments when you're old enough to consider yourself able to be disgusted with us. Don't judge us based on one misguided little girl. And to the OP... My parents would have really been upset if I had done that. If you want to do something, talking to her about condoms may seem as if you're encouraging it. I agree with the person that said constant supervision. A lot of problems solved right there.

Ok, so sweeping it under the carpet and pretending it never happened is smart? This is why those in countries with abstinence being taught as the best form of birth control have the highest birthrates amongst teens, not to mention those gifts that keep on giving.. Like AIDS and herpes. Teach her bout safe sex. Explain to her the responsibilities that come with sex. Encourage her to wait until she does it again. Do not condemn her for it. Do not punish her for it. I am one of those children who had sex early and was punished for it, condemned for it. I'm 35 now and a happy mother of three. However, because of the way I was treated after my youthful indiscretions I have remained distant from my family and share very little about my personal life with either my mother or my sister. Support her decisions and be there for her that way she comes to you with the other serious happenings in her life. I have a box of condoms in the bathroom for my boys should they ever need it. They don't have to ask, just take them. I'd rather them do that than say "Hey, mom, I got xxx a little bit pregnant." or better yet "Mom, I have HIV." Where I live sex education is started at a very young age. Teaching her how to be safe and responsible, or any child for that matter, is not only responsible on the parents' part but it does NOT mean the children are going to go out and put Gene Simmons to shame with partners. It just means they will be smart and safe about it WHEN they do. I highly doubt the young woman (She is that you know) has had many partners so calling her **** and ***** may be a little much. The abuse you people are showing toward her and her mother will scar her more than an exploratory instance of sex. Again, get your heads out of your ass. Do you not see the "Speak your mind, but please try and be respectful."?

suck in..... good one