By SweetStuff88 - 15/11/2012 13:37 - United States

Spicy
Today, my girlfriend admitted to me that she has been sleeping with someone on her girls basketball team, which at first turned me on. Then I found out he's the team manager. FML
I agree, your life sucks 30 589
You deserved it 9 711

Same thing different taste

Top comments

flockz 19

now she has her hands on balls on and off the court.

Now that's what I call double-dribbling.

Comments

Well now he knows she likes NBN... Nothing But 'Nads

So... it's okay for your girlfriend to cheat on you if it's with a female, because it's "hot"? Cheating is cheating, asshole.

Oh, so it's OK for your girlfriend to sleep around with other girls because it's 'hot', but it's not okay if it's a guy? YDI , just for being a immature fool.

I wouldn't say he deserved it but it is a bit silly to think that. it's weird to think some boys don't look at that as cheating! x

I don't think it's fair to say that he deserved it. It really depends on context. If he's okay with her sleeping with other girls then he may not consider that cheating while some others may. Clearly in his relationship he had no problem with his gf being with other girls, jus not other guys....

He must be one of those dudes that fantasizes about threesomes. Personally, I don't find it that appealing because: A) What would the second girl do while you were doing the other one? B) I always sex/intimacy was supposed to be just that, intimate, and personal.

lumberjack610 1

86... You must not be a real guy. Girl on girlfriend = HOT. Guy on girlfriend = someone must die. I've had a threesome, and there is plentyyy to do with the other girl ;)

126 No, he is a real gentleman, but obviously he's not a pervert like you. If you want a threesome with your girl or wife and another girl then you better do the same for her with another man and not bitch about it.

If she slept with someone else it's cheating, whether it was another girl or not. The only way I would understand you being okay with her sleeping with other girls is if you had specifically established that it doesn't count as cheating. Otherwise, it's not okay. You sound like an overly hormonal teenager.

I like how OP wasn't upset by the thought of his girlfriend cheating on him with another girl, but went all "OH NO YOU DI-ENT" when he heard she cheated on him with a man.

completely agree! I can understand why he was initially turned on but she still went behind his back!

you can imagine the conversation... ops girlfriend: I slept with one of my team mates. op: holy shit that's hot, why do you look upset about it? ops girlfriend: it's a man.. op: that is not cool, get the **** out! I don't understand why he didn't consider the girl on girl cheating!

How about this, Gf: I slept with someone from the basketball team. Op: oh! Wow that's ok don't worry about it. Gf: really? Are u not mad at me?. Op: no, Its totally sexy, infact we can have a threesome. Gf: threesome? But I dunno whether he will accept. Op: "He"? its a male. Gf: yes, my team manager. Op: Oh! **** you bitch, get the **** away

flockz 19

or how about this: gf: i have something to confess. i slept with someone on my basketball team. op: oh ok that's fine! (sigh of relief) gf: wait you're ok with it?? op: ya it's ok. what was her name? gf: well it was the team manager..... op: WAIT you slept with him too???

greasygrass 9

She's the best ballhandler on the team.

Why would the thought of your own girlfriend having lesbian sex with someone else turn you on?

Some guys are into that. I don't see the problems with people who like to watch lesbian sex, or get turned on by their partner sleeping with someone else. However, it is not for everyone and you should be on the same page as your partner. It sounds like Op's girlfriend had no idea it turned Op on, and Op had no idea she was sleeping around... so either way they do not sound like a couple that is going to work out.