Would she consider it cheating if you had sex with another guy? Just asking.

I don't know how you could be turned on by the possibility of her cheating on you with a woman. You should have just been furious that she cheated, not whether it was a man or woman affecting that. At this point she should be your ex girlfriend. I feel bad for you, your girlfriend is a *****, but you don't sound like you're handling it right. If you think her cheating on you with a man is wrong but with a woman it's okay, then you definitely have issues and need to grow up.

Seriously everyone saying that its ok cos he thought it might of been one of the other teammates or suggested a threesome you have something wrong with you. OP fyl cos that is not ok

I hope she knows that's a double technical foul. She's outta here, partner!

Eh..I think it depends on the circumstances. For example I used to date this girl and at parties she'd get drunk and make out with other girls. I blame it on Katy Perry, but anyway I was bothered at first then I just kind of let it go. If she was making out with other guys or sleeping with those women I'd of been pissed, but I didn't really consider that cheating though. Just throwing my two cents in there.

On the one hand, yeah, it's horrible to be cheated on. On the other, all my sympathy for you goes out the window when you imply that it'd be okay and "hot" if she cheated on you with a woman, but it's only an FML because it was a man. So I can't exactly say YDI (even if I might want to), but I'm certainly not going to sympathize with you either.

Uh, why is it okay for her to cheat on you with a girl? If she's doing it behind your back, you can't really expect it to turn into a threesome. Sorry about the girl though. You can find a faithful girl that won't cheat on you with a man OR a woman. If you want a threesome so badly, I suggest doing it with two girls you are not emotionally attached to since it can ruin a relationship.

I was gonna say fyl, but that was before I realized what a hypocrite you are. there's actually something quite repugnant about a guy who only cares about being cheated on with another man, but finds the idea of his girlfriend cheating with another girl "hot". people like that apparently don't view lesbian relationships as valid or something.

Reason-- Only one penis per fantasy is allowed. :P

Was feeling sympathetic until you didn't mind her cheating on you with another woman. It shouldn't be attractive nor taken lightly no matter what gender it is with.