By heart broken - 29/12/2013 09:05 - United States

Today, my husband told me yet again that the last two years have been the worst of his life. Our two year anniversary is next week. FML
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Welshite 39

Yet again? You guys need to talk this out, or get help with a marriage counselor. Both of you sound unhappy in your relationship.

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skyeyez9 24

Maybe it isnt you. He could be going thru a severe depression caused by outside factors? Hope you both get counseling to get to the bottom of this.

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DoginDarkness 8

Are you sure he was talking about the marriage, maybe just jumping to the wrong conclusion.

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Avery001 6

I said that to my husband multiple times when we had been together for a little over a year. I was miserable. I would talk to other guys behind his back and go hang out with them. But he would never let me go. I told him I wanted a divorce so many times. I was really mean. But he loved me so much that he would refuse to let me leave. He said we were meant to be together and even though I had given up, he would never let me go. I realized that he was an amazing man who had sacrificed so much for me, I couldn't throw it away for someone who I wasn't sure would be worth it. He started seeing a therapist for his anger issues (he had never hurt me, and never would) and I learned to let go of my perfectionism in things that didn't really matter. I became patient and understanding. We just got back from a snowboarding trip to Utah, where we had an amazing time. We cuddle every chance we get, and we give each other kisses every five minutes. We were able to work it out, and if your relationship is worth it, and what you are both going through can be fixed, you'll learn to love each other again. But maybe you're not ready for each other. Maybe going your separate ways is the best idea. No one knows better than you two. But I would recommend a therapist. Good luck.

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warriorkitty_ 10

Why do people so easily suggest divorce?This isnt a teen relationship where they can just so easily "break up". Don't marriage mean anything anymore? We can't possibly expect a marriage to be 100% loveydovey and divorce someone the moment something tough comes up. OP,you really should talk it out with him. Or go for marriage counselling. Remember what made you marry him. Somehow,this reminds me of the scene from Enchanted where Giselle met this couple in the midst of a divorce and unknowingly helped them reconcile. Goodluck!! :D Maybe you should build up the romace again with a vacation like a second honeymoon for your second anniversary.^^

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TheNewGuy03 28

Not sure why this got downvoted; these are valid points.

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Core5555 9

He said it's the worst 2 years of his life. So far it is 100% UN-lovey-dovey.

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cwbygmer 2

valid points and I agree just because a relationship starts going bad or goes through a rough patch divorce shouldn't be an answer and people need to work on their relationship, although judging from OP's comment about them being together two years and him saying that the last two years he's been miserable then yeah don't think that is a situation either party should stay in. I would say get counseling or sit down and talk things out like adults but I think it is time to move on at this point

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rockhead1270 5

Don't waste money on a marriage council. They'll just tell you to go to church and **** more

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amulya 14

Aw, I'm really sorry OP. That's really mean of him. I hope you two are able to work things out.

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mattg47 5

Sounds like you two need to work something out. Maybe a divorce

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Dallyni 22

Why are you still married?

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