I really hope you don't go all Lorena Bobbitt on us, as much as you would love to. Just keep in mind that he is not worth the jail time, neither is your 'best friend'. This has happen to me. My heart goes out to you.

Lame excuses , around since 1346.

I'm wondering how often OP had sex with her husband in the first place. Anything less than once a month is good cause for occasional cheating if you ask me. In a relationship with mismatched libidos, it's not automatically the lower libido that wins. I'm on the husbands side unless OP convinces me that she tried her best to keep her husband satisfied with regular and good sex.

He should slip and fall out of your life, you're better off without someone like that in your life.

**** a fake friend, where yo real friends at.. no? okay..

its kool that u changed ur user name and hope that too will change...hope for the best op...cheer up they dont deserve U

OMG! Did he cum out ok ?

Hey! The same thing happened to my ex!!

At least he didn't cheat...

If she's your best friend, I'd hate to see how your less good friends behave.