By skaterboy - 13/08/2013 15:36 - Canada - Calgary

Today, my mom got a cat. I'm allergic to cats, so I politely asked my mom why she got it. Her response: "I want you to finally want to move out." I turned eighteen two weeks ago. FML
I agree, your life sucks 50 617
You deserved it 5 035

Same thing different taste

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Thats's awful!! Try staying with a good friend until you can get on your feet :)

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If you're 18 you should at least be paying for your own food, and possibly paying rent as well. You're an adult now, you have to learn how to take care of yourself. Get a job (if you don't already have one) and offer to pay her like $100 a month to stay with her. She'll probably change her mind.

He turned 18 two weeks before numbskull. It says it in the FML.

Doesn't matter if he just turned 18 today, his parents are no longer legally required to look after him. If he wants to stay with them he should earn his keep. It's completely fair to ask someone who's staying with you to pay rent, since they're using your water, electricity, ect. Possibly eating your food as well. No way in hell would I let someone stay with me for an extended period of time for free, relative or not.

ThatOneTimeLord 25

Let's throw out a18 year old on his birthday and tell him to **** himself.

Hmmm, #86, the OP clearly hasn't got the memo that humanity has adopted a turtle parenting style.

Apparently no-one in Southern Europe got the memo either.

Jst4kicks 16

time to get some claritan clear

you just turned 18 and you probably haven't even graduated from high school yet... Just because you are legally an adult does not mean that your parents should be dicks. The government set an age of adulthood to make a clear line for consent at legal documents and other such reasons, not so parents could be jerks and kick their kids out on the street as soon as possible. I have friends that are in college and are 22 still living with their parents. And in response to #56, just because they raised you does not mean you owe them anything for being a parent. A government issued age of adulthood does not mean OP has to pay a rent to stay with his parents. OP's mom is extremely rude and didn't think this out. If she has a cat, and OP is allergic to cats, then OP can't even visit (assuming OP did move out asap) his parents to say hello without having some sort of reaction. OP, if I were you I'd start taking allergy medicine and not allow the cat in my room. I'd also COMPLETELY ignore my mother. If she talked to me I wouldn't respond. If she asked me to do something I wouldn't do it. If someone is going to go out of their way to be rude and mean to their own children, the children then have the right to be rude and mean back. If she is allergic to something put it all over the house as revenge.

It's August, anyone who turned 18 this year should be finished high school unless they failed. Also, since it's summer he should be working full time anyways. I think asking him to pay rent is fair, unless he is saving for college/university.

knoxxx 22

Just because you're so self-entitled that you think it is your RIGHT to be supported by your parent until an time when you're comfortable on your own doesn't mean that a parent should have to support their child until such a point. You act like being financially and morally responsible for the well-being of someone for 18+ years is an easy endeavor. And we don't know what type of child OP was, we don't know whether they misbehaved and constantly caused their parents problems or if they are responsible, caring person. The truth is, if you're living in your parents' house, eating your parents' food, and living off your parents' income, you don't really have the right to be such a snot about being asked to contribute a little or gtfo. And FYI, I'm allergic to cats and I have a cat. If you vacuum regularly, take medicine when needed, and don't let your cat sleep on your pillows it's fine. So calm down, OP's mom didn't spike OP's juice with cyanide or anything.

Good for you. Not everyone has the same reaction. Allergies have a scale of 0-6, therefore not everyone's reaction is the same.

Please don't have kids. One of my friends has a parent who thought just like that. She lives in a country where it's legal to move out at 16 and her mother has repeatedly threatened to kick her out since her sixteenth birthday. Eventually, she moved across the country to live a with a guy several years older than her she met online. Fortunately, he turned out to be a good guy and is now her boyfriend, but her mother did not care what happened to her. All she cared about was that my friend got out. She didn't care about the fact that her daughter could've been falling right into a predator's hands. Moving out at 18 isn't feasible for everyone and jobs don't just fall out of the sky. They take time. I'd rather care for my kid past the age of 18 than just throw them out on the streets, where who knows what could happen to them.

knoxxx 22

98, if you're telling me not to have kids, you're ridiculously overreacting. And probably another self-entitled brat. There's a happy medium between spoiling your kids until they're 35 still living in your basement, and sending your kid out on the streets as soon as you possibly can. Just because I think that children should be brought up to believe they should assume some responsibility, both for their actions and their finances, does not mean I'd be a bad parent. And there are other ways of saving up money if you can't get a job (even though you've applied, and educated yourself, and tried to make social connections and put in as much effort as possible, like everyone else who is trying to get a job right now).

A self-entitled brat wouldn't care about the safety of her friend, so you lose that argument.

Compromise with her, ask her to leave the cat at a friends for awhile, while you save up and get ready to move out

Sober1128 9

I was kicked out THE DAY I turned 18.

Hey #52, just because you were lucky enough to find a good job doesn't mean everyone else is lazy. The economy sucks, there are practically no jobs, and it's mostly people well into adulthood that get these jobs "because they need it more". So just because you're lucky doesn't mean you need to be a jerk.

I got kicked out of my moms house when I was 16 because she got an new bf

allisadawn91 8

Get rid of the cat! That's super messed up of your mom. When she's not around take it to an animal shelter. Or you can shred the couches and blame it on the cat!! Lol