By chumpslolo - 25/07/2013 10:55 - United States - Vandalia

Today, my sister backed out of my wedding because it was becoming too much about me. After I begged her to reconsider, I had no choice but to pick a new bridesmaid. When my new bridesmaid posted on Facebook how excited she was, my sister commented, "See, you made HER feel special." FML
I agree, your life sucks 55 604
You deserved it 3 999

Same thing different taste

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feldco1 17

Wow what a drama queen. It's YOUR day OP so forget her and congrats!

She doesn't deserve to be in the wedding then, OP.

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perdix 29

Your wedding IS all about you! The groom is lucky if he can get a word in edgewise. Bridesmaids and groomsmen are as important as cannon fodder. They're just part of the scenery.

TheDrifter 23

I thought they were there to tell stories about the couple and have drunken lapses in judgment that make the special day memorable for the bride?

RedPillSucks 31

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DKjazz 20

There, there, RedPillSucks. I didn't want to marry her anyway.

You deserve it for wanting a wedding

Please, explain your reasoning. Because from my side, it's looking to be full of holes, if it even exists.

TheDrifter 23

I recall that fml, full holes were in fact the basis of their marital issues.

Older or younger sister? Or middle? If she's the youngest she could be used to being the little princess of the family. In any case, good luck OP.

Let me elaborate; often times the youngest sibling will be like a prince or princess, and even the older sibling will pamper them as such. I love making sure my younger sister has the best of everything she wants and needs (within reason of course). I'm not trying to stereotype, I'm just applying what I've learned in my sociology classes, and seen in my own life. Picture a family, mom, dad, boy #1, boy #2, and finally a girl, ages 21, 19, and 17, respectively. I'm friends with the girl, but she can be annoying- she's the youngest and only girl of the family, and is used to getting what she wants. Sorry for any offence, I was just curious.

gloooooria 14

I'm not sure if its the age of the sister that would matter. She sounds just plain out selfish. I'm the youngest in a trio of sisters and no where near a princess. During my oldest sister's wedding I did everything for her with a smile on my face because I was happy for her and her husband. This sister hasn't learned how to be happy for others. Especially her family. It's probably best she's out. Unless you want continued drama from a self made Queen.

xninix_fml 36

I'm the youngest in my family, and I am not treated like a "little princess". just saying this is Not always the case in every family.

gloooooria 14

#43, I understand. My older siblings took and still take care of me as I do my younger brother. But isn't that what siblings are for? To look out for each other in a positive way? If a individual takes that kind of gesture as I DESERVE these things, that's the problem. Age and gender have nothing to do with an ungrateful brat.

I'm sorry I made it come across that way, I didn't mean to stipulate that that is the case in all situations, merely that that CAN be the case. I was asking, again, just out of curiosity. I was not trying to broadly stereotype all youngest siblings, please do not take my statements personally. So again, I will apologize if I have offended you.

I find that Hispamic families tend to baby the boy and the youngest child. Not saying thats thebcase always, but from what Ive seen, Hispanics do that a lot. At least in Miami

You're the bride... It's supposed to be about you and your soon-to-be husband... I don't see how it's supposed to be about her at all.

It's your wedding..,does it matter what she thinks?

It's your day- don't let anyone try to force what they need or want on you.

You even asked for her to reconsider and she still rejected you? What a bitch. Glad she's out of the bridesmaid picture. She doesn't deserve to be one.

Iknoweverything 29

She was probably hoping that OP would beg her tearfully, and then make her feel extra special. Why don't people understand that it's an HONOR to be asked to be a bridesmaid? We ask the people we care about the most. And her sister didn't feel special enough? What does she want, a parade?