By Gurior - 16/04/2013 17:44 - Canada
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Have you guys talked about why she's a virgin? Maybe you need to gain some perspective instead of getting whiny about why she won't touch your junk. Wait & work around it. I'm sure she'll eventually be comfortable with being intimate. Everyone's different.
Sit down and talk to her. If she just wont make the firat move becauses shes shy then try and make her comfotable. If she wants to wait till marriage then you have her answer. Dont be so selfish and try and rush her.
Will she talk to you about it, OP? She might have issues about human sexuality that you need to know about.
Good to see so many mature responses (being serious, not sarcastic here). OP, timing and understanding are everything. Just because someone is a medical professional doesn't mean that they want to jump everything that moves. This needs to be a serious discussion, not an assumption on your part that she should be ready just because you are. If this is the girl for you, decide which hand you really want to get to know until she is.
This is very true. I'm in healthcare and have seen more penises than a prostitute, some just flopping in the wind, and I have never thought "Wow, that arouses me." My husband on the other hand does. Even if he did have to wait, because while he isn't religious and didn't care about pre-marital sex, I did. Also, if it is truly insecurity and not wanting to wait until marriage, complaining on FML is not going to help. Be sincere. Be empathetic. And if you rush her, she'll start to resent you and lock that shit up tighter than the Federal Reserve. Insecurity only gets worse with negative feedback.
How is shoving one's arm up a cow's ass comparable to sex? I'm not sure what you had in mind, OP, but I think your girlfriend should be afraid. Very afraid.
Tell her your hung like a horse maybe that will work
Uncircumcised penises look weird. It's like a little turtle going back into its shell.
You do realize that some girls don't just wanna have sex right? Respect her morals.
It's a choice of hers, not an insecurity. Respect her wishes or back out if you can't handle it, but don't bitch about her values.
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Respect her values dude, if you love her enough you will wait. And loosing her virginity is much different than her job.
well, you can't get pregnant from a cow's ass