How do you know he's pressuring her?

Why else would he be complaining if he wasn't pressuring her? He's obviously only in the relationship to get some and that's not fair to her.

I think it's more FHL because she's been dating someone for a year who clearly doesn't respect her decisions because he doesn't get any personal gain.

What? It's not like he is like oh iv have been seeing her for two days! They have been together for year and unless she really has some religious or other psychological issues its pretty normal to want to be at least a little bit physically intimate with your partner.

He doesn't say anything about intimacy, this is strictly about sex. Your argument is indeed very invalid.

Fine there is nothing wrong with wanting sex in an adult relationship it's actually a pretty important aspect of most relationships!

I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we don't just 'have sex' it means something to us, it's intimate and loving, maybe op's girlfriend wants to make love and isn't sure if he respects that yet.

63; I sincerely hope you're joking, because if you're not, then I have no respect for you as a human being. There are SO many factors (religion, morals, past experience, personal preference) to why she may still be holding onto her virginity, and the fact that you immediately go 'lolol, if she's not jumping you're bones, she must like ladies more!' is horribly insensitive (which I GUESS it could be a possibility, but I have a feeling you're just being a dick). In fact, it's possible that as much as she may love him (assuming she does), she simply has no interest in being intimate with him at the moment. As I hinted at earlier, it's also very possible that she simply prefers to not have sex (my own personal reason, paired with me only being 17...) But what the hell do I know? Im clearly just a closeted lesbian.

isn't that just wanking essentially?