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Sweetie, you're still a civilian. Your hubby is the one working for the government. Not you. You might be married to him but you're still a civilian.
okay... I AM MILITARY, so i can tell you... don't listen to these high and mighty bitches that think they are special. if my wife was like this i wouldn't have married her. i agree with an earlier post. if you want to stick with him then best way to get through it is focus on supporting him. obviously most of them forgot what it was like when they realized that reality wasn't as romantic as the show ARMY WIVES. oh and by the way... from my experiences most the women that do act so special about being married military are the once who have at some point cheated on their spouses overseas. see they feel so guilty they have to jump on your ass to feel better about themselves
Wow I've never seen so many bitchy comments on here! Anyone would think the OP had posted that she'd shot a puppy or something! Her soon to be hubby is at fault here, he could quite easily send money back but the OP still has somewhere to live...
well now no it's not quite that easy. there's been many times i tried to send money. especially if you're one of people pushed out to the shitty areas. several times i tried to send money and it was actually LOST. the fact is it's no one's fault. it's just way life is in this situation
my husband is in the army if you are married before he gets deployed they will give him a housing allowance due to the fact that they do not want soldiers to return from a deployment to the states with no home
You have no idea what your talking about. when you are on active duty you get a housing allowance usually way more than the cost of your rent. Your boyfriend must just be saying that because he doesn't want to be with you anymore. So FYL
god you're stupid. i am active duty and no you don't get paid housing just for being active. hell where i'm stationed you don't even get automatic housing for being married. the ONLY way to get it here is if you live off post. so even when i got married i had to get official command approval to get paid housing
That sucks. Sorry to hear he is deploying. I'm a Marine wife, my husband deploys in September. And to answer everyones questions, she can't get any money or anything unless their married. Engaged doesn't count.
he is smart not letting you get hold of his paycheck U.S.M.C
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when you're an "army wife," minor/major setbacks is what you will have to deal with. It wont be easy.
oh so my job is to get shot? i hope you're not american cause i'd hate to think it's my job to get shot for you