By Renagirl - 09/09/2013 12:46 - United States - East Hartford

Today, the guy I love asked me if hooking up counted as dating, because he thinks I'm "super hot," but he doesn't want "all the relationship shit." FML
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olpally 32

What a superficial dick. Don't hook up with an arrogant asswad like that.

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Jellybean22 14

Sorry about that OP, he obviously sounds like a jerk. Just forget about him

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Became_fml 10

You definitely deserve more than that. Sorry OP

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etishuman22 32

I'd say your love is better given to somebody who does want "all the relationship shit", OP. I know it hurts now, but you will find someone who views you as more than just an object.

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UO88 10

It will be hard to, but move on. You will find someone who is better, one that actually does want a relationship.

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UnluckyGenius 21

Does kicking him off a bridge count as attempted murder?

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TheDrifter 23

And if there's water or a freeway underneath.

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threer 30

Still assault, though.

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UnluckyGenius 21

Details #76, details.

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micha090 21

Dumb his sorry ass soon, before you find out he his two timing and save yourself from some heart ache. You deserve better OP.

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sunnyray812 42

Don't hook up with him. It'll only break your heart.

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Jasmeent11 15

That's what you get for being hot! Jk, dump him, he sounds like he's not worth it.

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150493x 29

You can do much better OP. I hope your feelings for him disappear soon. Keep your chin up!

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jessBeAqueen 13

I don't understand why everyone's making him out to be an ass. relationships aren't for everyone and at least he was being honest. most men would lie just to get in your pants. there's nothing wrong with wanting to hook as long as your safe. it just sucks that you love him. don't do it. once feelings are involved things become more complicated and you'll just end up getting hurt

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A83_fml 18

^ He's being honest in a very insensitive way. All I can say is: I approve his honesty, and I disapprove the way he shows it. Loving such a person sucks though. I wish you strength :)

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jessBeAqueen 13

yes buy he may not even know that op loves him so he might have just been making a casual proposition

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pazuzus_intern 10

He's an ass because he knows full well that she has feelings for him and is still trying to get in her pants, throwing her feelings to the wind and basically plans to have a "not my problem" mindset when she gets her heart broken because he never cared about her. Granted he'll have the "she knew what this was" excuse when it's over, but it's still manipulative. It would be different if he wanted to have a no-strings attached sexual relationship with a girl who was also "not into that relationship shit" and it would be perfectly fine. But he already knows her heart is involved and he doesn't care.

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pazuzus_intern 10

It's a possibility but I would think if it was a casual proposition, he wouldn't have had to ask if it counts as dating. It sounds like a confession happened first to me.

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jessBeAqueen 13

no where on this fml does it say he knows that op loves him . maybe he was asking if its dating because he wanted to know where her mindset was at with the whole no strings attached. I don't like jumping into relationships and put everything out on the table beforehand that way there are no misunderstandings. perhaps he was doing the same.

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queerdragon 20

Pazu... I like how you instantly know everything that is going on in this guy's head. We get three or four lines from a girl who is in love with him. Of course she is going to be hurt. To me, it sounds like she might have asked him out on a date and he asked if hooking up counted. Even if he did know, he told her the truth and now she knows. Many guys would not give a girl that if they wanted to hook up with them. He might not be eloquent, but he is not trying to use her.

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