totally agree #111, what's the big woop about being single. Being single is great, it really means that you're not getting into relationships for selfish reasons and it really allows you to focus on important tasks, plus, at 20, what real kind of commitment can you give to someone else? Can you actually promise them complete and absolute dedication and commitment? 20 is a ripe age for self-discovery and only until you truly know yourself can you start exploring another.

LOL oh come on, your life is not ****** because of this. =)

it's more pathetic that you feel insecure about being single than the actual fact you are single. there's nothing wrong with being single. YOU'RE PATHETIC.

That's sad . So what if your single ? Not everyone is taken ALL THE TIME . You're just 20 . Plenty of hot Robert Pattinsons to find ; ) . Enjoy being single . Try dating different guys til you think you've met a good one . You're too young to be all serious and settle anyways . Just have FUN !

Didn't really make you feel less pathetic now did it??

YDI for thinking its pathetic to be single at 20. or feeling the need to impress a 3 year old

If you told her that you're single, she'd make fun of you and wouldn't respect you, and it would be tougher to babysit her. Good move IMO.

Why must everyone always feel sad for all these people that are single? Its not that big of a deal, and if you don't like it, do something about it.

What's so pathetic about being single? You really need to get some self esteem...

And here you could have shown her her life needn't be defined by her romantic relationships,