Not necessarily, if she's not insecure about her weight. I mean it's obviously an insensitive comment and even more insensitive timing but if OP didn't really mean it and quickly explained/apologised, there's no reason it should be a huge issue. Unless she really believes he thinks she is fat, there's no need for her to avoid having sex.

you're totally right but even though I'm not insecure about my weight that would still make me a little upset.... I'd probably just ground him for a few days(;

it would make many insecure about their bodies, even if he apologized right after. The seed have been planted in her thoughts now

Exactly what I was trying to say! let's just hope she isn't too insecure.

I don't know, if I needed to lose weight, I would want my significant other to tell me... Just maybe not while we were in the bedroom. However, he didn't mean it. Earnest mistake.

I'm not sure if I'd want to hear it or not... I mean, if you're overweight you should be able to tell in the mirror. Having someone tell you would just be embarrassing, especially someone you're dating.

I don't understand this line of reasoning. If you're embarassed by your weight, in that case why wouldn't you get proactive about it? Certainly no one would have anything to say if you were trying your best, and you wouldn't have to worry about people like your boyfriend's opinoin in that case since you'd most probably be getting into good shape. I mean, if you don't want to hear it because it should be obvious to you, and that bothers you, then why not change?

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That's what I'm saying thought, #24. If it's obvious then why point it out? Or maybe they DO want to change and are having a tough time losing it,

Losing weight is not an easy thing. Just deciding you're just going to eat healthier and exercise doesn't do it for certain people. And I know from experience that it's a long struggle, and people pointing it out - even if you are being proactive about it - doesn't always go over well.