By honeymoondisaster - 23/05/2009 04:44 - United States
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I think this is a dilemma. I truly have respect for the willpower of people who want to wait until marriage. On the other side, this is a perfect example why the idea itself is stupid. I mean, sure...you don't have to get it on as soon as you know one's name, but you religious guys'n gals could loosen up a bit and at least, say, sleep with each other after the engagement. To make sure, that even the last thing in your relationship works out, before it's too late. My advice for you is first to ask her why she was so afraid (if she doesn't love you, dump her) and she doesn't tell or admits that she is too scared of doing it, get her a shrink. Sorry for you.
omg!
She must have been a wreck knowing that after the wedding when you guys went to go to bed you would be expecting to have sex with her. And dreading that, since the time you guys made the no sex pact.
It's always a good idea to wait until marraige...this chick is just something strange.
There's nothing to be afraid of. It's fun =)
so...your wife couldn't stand looking at another naked girl? o.o
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I'm sorry to hear that. Please be patient with her, hopefully she'll come around soon!
I'm sure she's just nervous and clearly has very little idea about sex... sounds like her parents told her it was a scary bad thing and left it at that.