By Anonymous - 21/07/2013 21:49 - Canada - Drumheller

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Today, while arguing with my newly ex-girlfriend over how she cheated on me with a mutual friend, she tried to wash her hands of any guilt, saying that I was "selfish" and "just slut-shaming, really". FML
I agree, your life sucks 47 163
You deserved it 3 788

Same thing different taste

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bettyboop428 24

Yes, how selfish of you OP to expect faithfulness from your gf and loyalty from your friends. Just so selfish....

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danidanidani 10

Well at least she admitted she was a ****

forget her you got better things to do than talk to some one that cheated on you and still believes she was right to do that m you got to move on

lopecrit 7

Technically she is only your (ex) "girlfriend" you have no claim over her what so ever. She is indeed allowed to share a bed with whom ever she wants.

OP said "newly ex-girlfriend" thus meaning that he had JUST broken up with her for sleeping with the mutual friend. Therefore, at the time it happened he was still with her, and thus did indeed have "claim" on her.

jw90 18

People will try and justify anything to where it's not there fault. Take responsibility for your actions people!

Never fight with an ex. Drop things and if she keeps messaging you it's bc she's upset and still getting over it. what ever you do don't reply

I am a feminist and ****-shaming has nothing to do with cheating on the person you're in a committed relarion with, or the person you're claiming to be in a relationship with.

What a shallow stupid woman. Good job dumping and leaving.

puffleprincess 7

Since you said "newly ex-girlfriend" and not "now ex-girlfriend" I'm figuring that this argument took place AFTER the actual break up occurred, therefore I think YDI. Yep, what she did was awful, but if you were already broken up, there was no need for this argument to take place.

puffleprincess 7

You should have just been the bigger person and walked away. My YDI isn't to you being cheated on (I'm sorry about that, btw), just to you arguing with her after you guys had already broken up.

Maybe he wanted to know the "what why when" of it?? Can't blame him. When my ex cheated.. I wanted to know the reason so that I would have closure.

puffleprincess 7

#119-I can understand that, completely. It does help some people with closure. But when it stopped being a conversation and turned into an argument, I think he should have walked away. But, that's just my opinion.