some people are absolute assholes. including the bitch who said that. who the hell does she think she is? she was probably just trying to make herself feel better. im sure u look fine.

You're 16, I'm guessing. You think 16 is sooo much more powerful and important than 14. Neither are. You should never be fat. 14 or 16.

They meant baby fat, that's why they said ages.

True that.

what the **** is wrong with all of you ******* people? you ******* judge people all the time just so you can feel better about yourselves. give the girl a ******* break and lay off. I'm a child phycologyst and you have no idea how many depressed kids I work with because people make fun of them.

Oh she's 14? Oh well then that's ok. She doesn't need to worry about future health problems coming from her obesity. Greater risk of heart problems and diabetes? Who cares! She'll think she's fine and that's what matters, right? ********. If she's fat, then she should do something about it so people don't think she just gave birth.

I think what #19 meant was that at 14, a lot of kids' bodies are still developing and all that. She might have a few more inches to grow, "baby fat" that might go away. I don't think she meant that you don't need to at all concerned about your health at age 14. Who said she was obese, anyway? Why is everyone blaming OP for this, anyway? Don't comment on a stranger's weight. Period. Even if you think it's harmless and your intentions are good, just don't do it. It's really not your business and the person probably won't appreciate it. The woman should have stopped after "Aww, your kid is adorable!" And even then, she should have said "that" kid. Too many people make assumptions about people they don't know. It's rude.

It is 100 percent UNHEALTHY for people under the age of 18 to diet. Schools should be providing the needed excerise, and yearly dr. appointments should be keeping her on track. Plus alot of kids still have baby fat until 16-17 years old.

I want to write as if I'm writing poetry too! It makes me look cool.

ROFL AYLISH

So do you think we should tell your sister that she is overweight? completely crush her ? Make her feel horrible ? Worthless ?

your nickname says it, huh? Completely crushing? BS! It's called MOTIVATION stemming from knowing the factual truth. Not "omfg you're sooo faaat), but "let's get you more active and make you eat healthy, cause you have one body for a lifetime."

No one said that though did they? They all went off saying she was fat and needed exercise and being out right horrible so there was NOTHING polite about it

Wow, you can tell you're a little on the tubby side Goalstopper, what's the matter sick of people getting on your prodigous back and decided to become Lard-Arse, defender of the fatties everywhere! By day obese store clerk, by night super hero of the obese!

I fail to see how you would know anything about me. How do you know I am not a Doctor ? And don't see obese people come through my surgery every day their self esteem crushed from people like you? So don't assume everything. You assumed this kid was absolutely huge and needed to be crushed in order to make her self healthier. Then you assumed I was obese and worked as a store clerk. So you are a jackass that assumes different things in order to make yourself feel better.

I'm a size 2 and people would always assume that any child I was with was mine. It's about how you act and look not about your weight. the OP might not even be fat. She could just be pear shaped or have some muffin-action going on. There's no reason to assume she's morbidly obese or even overweight.