Bad timing

By kellym - 22/04/2009 03:24 - Canada

Today, I called my husband and he told me that he was going to invite his friend Jeff over that night. I told him I would prefer that he didn't come over. He took it to mean that I wanted to spend time with him and came home with flowers. Then had to tell him I was leaving him. FML
I agree, your life sucks 19 623
You deserved it 158 127

Same thing different taste

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FHL indeed. hate to tell you this, but the world does NOT revolve around you. and from the sound of it, you leaving him is the best thing you can do for him :P

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heather1980 0

I think shame on all of you for passing judgement on her. It was obviously not an easy thing for her to do and him showing a kind gesture made it even harder for her. Maybe she just wasnt in love with him anymore but it doesnt mean that she didnt care about hurting him which is why she said FML.

HAHA Im just sayin what ive always wanted to say to you people- YOU MOTHERFUCKING ASS BITCHES! COMMENTING AND CALLING A PERSON A BITCH YOU DONT EVEN KNOW?!? YEAH, WELL GUESS WHAT? YOU ARE THE TRUE BITCHES! SO LOSE SOME ****** WEIGHT YOU ****** PIECES OF SHIT AND WHILE YOU'RE AT IT, GET A ****** LIFE! LOSERS! xD AND I DONT CARE WHO COMMENTS CAUSE I DONT CARE ABOUT THIS ONE POST I GOT OTHER THINGS TO DO, BUT YOU OBVIOUSLY DONT! FYL! HAHA

maybe you should have tried marriage counseling or something b/c if he is willing to give up spending time with his friend and buy you flowers it shows he still cares about you. so nice job on staying til death do us part.

KEVINPASH 0

Considering my first post was moderated, I will take a more subtle stance. Flowers in a fight isn't a fix all. It is however something of a peace offering. It is a symbol that your ready to talk, but more importantly your ready to listen. I think thats one point that is often over looked by both sexes.

Errrm... wow. FBYL. I don't think you had any worse off a day than he did. I can see how you might feel guilty with the whole "Awww... he bought me flowers!" thing, but this isn't "I-Feel-Terrible" this is "F-My-Life". Take a deep breath. Now move on. If this really F's your life, how are you going to handle the divorce?

Okay, you want to know the one reason I don't think the guy was cheating or abusive? Because if he's cheating and/or abusive why would she plan on a certain time to be alone with him to tell she's leaving instead of just doing it? If he's cheating why bother scheduling a time to tell him? If he's abusive nobody in their right mind would want to specifically be alone with the person to tell them they were leaving them. Sure she may not love him anymore, but he's apparently making some effort, and as others have said marriage isn't dating, you don't just give up.

Anonymous14_fml 0

ditching his friend and bringing home flowers..wow he sucks. :/

A classic FHL: watch Today, I asked my wife if my friend Jeff could come over. When she said no, I thought she finally wanted to have a romantic evening alone, since we haven't had one in awhile. I came home with flowers, only for her to tell me that she's leaving me. FML. see you bitch...

Whitewaters 0

I feel sorry for the guy he went through all on the no his friend can't come over and u dumped him when he got u flowers.DAM ur MEAN!