oh please, like guys stop masturbating when they're in a relationship either.

I feel like you're really a man who agrees with OP's bf and are posing as a woman. Because all women know different things feel different and there is more than one type of ****** a woman can have. You'd feel differently if you tried using a vibrator.

I almost agree with you, but many women's partners work away, many men enjoy using toys with their ladies. Also, if you've never had one how can you judge? I can see your point that a healthy sex life doesn't NEED artificial stimulus, but YDI is a tad harsh.

#83 OP never said a vibrator was necessary and I can't see how you would have any idea what it is like being as you stated that you have never used one.

#83 Allow me to explain what is wrong about your comment. 1) Do you never **********, because your partner always manages to be around and satisfy your needs when you want him to? 2) So OP 'deserves' being dumped because she pleased herself in a way that wasn't 'necessary', according to you? Masturbating isn't necessary. Foreplay isn't necessary, for some women. And if a woman really does enjoy the feel of a vibrator, then unless you have some secret wisdom into making a man's penis vibrate like the toy does how the hell is it going to give you the same feeling? Orgasms feel differently depending on how climax was reached, and some women like certain methods as well as, in conjunction with, as a nice change from or even more than other ways. You have never tried a vibrator, so you can't judge. You only know your body, not any other woman's, so you can't judge. And so what if it isn't 'necessary'? Is it such that every time somebody does something unnecessary they deserve some harsh punishment? WTF is wrong with you?