Inappropriate

By CashChamp20 - This FML is from back in 2011 but it's good stuff - United States

Today, my girlfriend got a necklace from one of her guy friends. She loves it. It's a heart shaped necklace. She doesn't see a problem. FML
I agree, your life sucks 45 937
You deserved it 7 042

Top comments

sweetheartxoxo88 7

Maybe she is so in love with you that she only sees the beauty of the necklace and not the possible implications from the guy friend.

Comments

u know what op need to do! give her something special, a gift from the heart and this is how to do it: 1. cut a hole in a box 2. put you junk in the box 3. make her open the box.

Get something like a bracelet or necklace or chain from a 'gir'l and see how she likes it

i say kill him... how dare he give gifts to ur woman!

jerico616 14

Screw the necklace! Time to get a new girl!

I'm sorry but the dude probably put much time and effort in getting something he knew OP's girlfriend would love...the dude wants more than friendship...OP time for a plan of action...good luck!

Reminds me of my ex. Take some advice; walk away.

If your girlfriend doesn't see the problem, then she is an idiot.

Maybe there's something there with that "best friend" but seeing that she told the boyfriend about it and wasn't sneaky about it probably means nothing is going on.. and now OP looks like a jealous over-reacting freak, def not attractive!

I dont see anything really evil by it but if it really upsets you then she should understand... but if he's been her close friend for a long time you should also be more understanding... plus ya cant really say no can you? How bad would that be?

For my birthday, one of my guy friends gave me a cuddly panda holding a heart and another guy friend gave me a rose. Both of their girlfriends were there at the time and thought nothing of it. They're both in love with their girlfriends and have never been interested in me. They were both just friendly gifts, probably quickly chosen at the last minute, that they thought I would like. None of us even thought about it having any other implications. My ex always wore a necklace given to him by an ex from years ago because he happened to really like the necklace. I never thought anything of it. I can't believe the jealousy issues you all seem to have. Grow up.

Whoaaa. There is a huge difference between a stuff animal (cutesy and young) and a rose (still very acceptable as a friend or even family gift) and a piece of jewelry.

I don't see the issue either. If it's just an innocent gift from a friend either way, then it shouldn't matter if it's a bear or a necklace, as long as she likes it. I still wear a ring from my first boyfriend all the time. My last boyfriend didn't like it, but at least he understood that I wear it because I like it, not because I'm still in love with my ex.

...I also think there's a big difference between wearing a piece of jewelry from an ex-boyfriend and accepting new heart-shaped jewelry from a man who is not your current boyfriend.

REALLY???!!! I HATE when stupid people try to put limits on the rest of us. more then 75% of my friends are guys because girls are too dramatic, so ur saying tht I should get rid of my male friends because I'm dating someone? THERE ARE friendships that are more important then some guy or some girl......I have a couple of guy friends that are like brothers to me.... they protect me like a little sister and they pick up the pieces when I get dumped. So screw ur 1920's houswife thoughts about what its acceptable as far as other peoples friendships go...... cuz honey it's a FREE COUNTRY and just cuz YOU are ok being a hermit and probably a grouchy old housewife, doesnt mean that the rest of us arent perpaired to assert our rights as women in everyway we can...it's a mans world, but that doesnt mean they can control us.