Oh hell no.

Why did you sleep with this guy? Ask him why he hasn't had a vasectomy if he's so against it.

That's not really the kind of news you should deliver over the phone.....

Lawyer up!

I hope he comes around, OP!

Wrap it in lattes or you'll get his paychecks.

I don't think it is shitty of the boyfriend at all to not want to have the child. He had made it specifically clear to her that he did not want a child beforehand. You can be old and mature enough to do something but not handle the consequences. Such as driving a car; you can drive a car all day long and you know the possible consequences are accidents that can end in fatality or serious injury. It doesn't mean that you don't take every precaution about it to keep it from happening. I, as a woman, would not have a child unless I knew the father was ready for it. I feel it is more unfair to bring the child into this world unwanted by both of its biological parents, to not have a united, loving family, than to just abort it. An aborted child would never know it was alive nor could it feel any pain (as long as it is done early enough). Also, if the woman chooses to keep the child I do not think it is fair of her to make the father pay child support. I already said I wouldn't, but IF I were to keep a child from a man who wanted nothing to do with it, I wouldn't want ANY kind of contact with that man, including receiving money from him.

here are your lines OP: man the **** up!!

You're boyfriend is obviously very immature. If he isn't ready to be dealing with fatherhood, he shouldn't be sticking his wee wee where it doesn't belong. He's obviosly not mature enough to deal with the possible consequenses and take on any responsibility. Loser.

You're pregnant and not even married! Use some protection then after you're married you can do whatever you want how you want