Overreaction much?

By Anonymous - 04/10/2014 15:17 - Denmark

Today, my allergies flared up and I started sneezing. I guess my girlfriend was having a bad day, because she lost her shit and started telling me how annoying I am and how I can never do anything right. I'm not sure if we're still a couple, because she stormed out and won't answer my calls. FML
I agree, your life sucks 40 014
You deserved it 3 325

Same thing different taste

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You think it's funny you mistreat your boyfriend over nothing? That's screwed up.

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ostfaiz 18

She needs a break Op, give her one..

graphicstyle7 17

Well, I'll give her a slight benefit of the doubt and say perhaps she was in an amazingly bad mood/had a bad day/perhaps something disagreeable was on her mind... But otherwise, it's abusive, bitchy, controlling, manipulative behavior. If this happens more than once in a blue moon, you seriously ought to break it off and look for someone who can communicate with you more effectively.

Mysterious_one 26

in good.. and allergies lol..

she did this over a sneezing fit. unless she is a perfect 10 in body, into wild sex & filthy rich she sounds like someone not worth your time anyway. maybe you should be calling to break up with her.

She sounds like a bitch. Sounds like you would be better off without her.

don't worry OP, she may just be menstruating.

Looks like it's somebody's time of the month

As I told my coworker who bitches about my sniffling: you might as well isolate yourself from the world if sniffling and sneezing bothers you, because everyone does it, and complaining about it does nothing except make you look like an ass.

blairvic 23

I totally agree that if someone just complains for the sake of complaining, or they're really rude and show no remorse for their rudeness, they're not a good person. But I'd like to bring to your attention a real disorder called misophonia, the hatred of sound. It's a real thing and I have it, and basically certain common (and often human) noises really bother me. For example, some of my triggers are chewing, nail biting/picking loud breathing, tapping, muffled/tin-y music (like music blaring from a cellphone speaker), and many more. Sniffling wouldn't necessarily bother me, but other misophonia sufferers could easily be triggered by it. There are so many of us sufferers out there, too. So if someone asks someone to stop sniffling or breath a bit more quietly, or is generally annoyed by sneezing or breathing or sniffling, they COULD have misophonia. And I would hope that you and anyone else reading would understand that telling someone they should removes themselves from society because they have an incurable disorder is a bit mean, it's like saying "if you're allergic to nuts, that's too bad, you should just avoid people cause pretty much everyone eats nuts" You see, someone with misophonia with either sit there in silence, annoyed out of their minds, or they'll speak up. Since we do get so annoyed by our trigger sounds so easily, it's common that even though we don't mean to act rudely, we do, because we're overwhelmed. Anyway, I hope I've at least opened your eyes a bit, keep this info in mind and remember it if anyone ever (nicely) asks that you stop making a certain noise.

WHY is it everytime a girl does something bad, people think it's because of a disorder?????

#94 That sounds horrible. Being so bothered by natural bodily sounds would suck and make life difficult.