It's probably your screechy, irritating, grating Jo'burg accent. Cape Town ladies have lovely voices, but Jo'burg girls make you want to jam sharp pencils in your ears! Tell him you'll wear a ball gag during sex and he'll probably take that deal.

idk... some guys that do not actually love their wife get tired of sleeping with them... all my husband's friends defn wanted to sleep with me... everyone other than my husband has said I am the best they have ever been with, and after 7 years still drunk dial me to try.

you are probably boring in bed

I hate how people say you deserved it. I mean seriously it effects everything and then you tell her you need to get better in bed? Have some sympathy. It's just rude...

he sounds like a lazy ****…and at least she approached him abt it, but this idiot just sits on his ass and says, "this is less work…" hope u can work it out (I don't really. I want u to divorce him for being such a slob)

ask him what he like than DO IT! and not once a year at his birthday! men loves sex, if hes having alone fun, YOU are the problem! or break up! anyway do somethin'!!!!

Thank you, Dr. Ruth.

what he didn't tell the op is that he also gets to choose what he looks at

You are a bad lay if you're losing out to a hand. Be glad he hasn't left you... yet.

lmao sounds like something homer would say or a phrase that would be found watching an episode of family guy!