And this is the person you want to create life with? Seriously? Do you have any idea how much work a baby is, and you want one with a lazy piece of crap that plays video games all day then is "to tired" for sex? For one, sounds like he does not want a baby. For two, do you want to raise a child by yourself, because that's what you'll be doing. Get a grip and tell him to grow the **** up.

That sounds kinda rapey if he doesn't want to have sex

So what is the history going into this? Maybe the sex has been lousy up until this point and he just feels it isn't worth the effort. No man will turn down great sex. The whole idea of boring routine sex for the sole purpose of procreation isn't exactly going to motivate most men.

If he's this unenthusiastic about getting pregnant you might want to have a serious talk about him becoming a Father, he might not be the one.

I'm just curious anyone wonder why he was gaming for twelve hours? I've done that a few times and it wears you out, maybe he was in some kind of tournament but I mean it doesn't sound like he does this often sounds like the rant of a bitchy wife. I mean glad you did all that but was the sex scheduled? I know it's a spontaneous thing but when it comes to baby making if your that committed set dates reminders I drive a truck for a living and sometimes still forget parking break like hell if I'm going to remember what 3 or so days we have to have sex on by myself.

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What the hell is wrong with all the people on this thread?! OP congrats on all the achievements you have made so far, it definitely shows how dedicated you are to becoming a mother. However, while I would also be annoyed if my husband spent all day gaming and had not given me any attention that day I certainly wouldn't treat him like a walking sperm bank. As women we are so quick to jump on the sexist bandwagon when we feel objectified but that is exactly what is happening to your husband. Sex is not just about pumping some semen into your womb in the hopes of conception. I know right, it sounds disgusting. Now imagine how that might make your husband feel? Sure, you've made a lot of effort but that doesn't stop you from making your husband feel desired and loved. Having a child is a huge commitment but that doesn't mean all other commitments take a back seat. I highly recommend you speak to your husband and find out how he feels about the situation. He might not even know how disappointed you are, men don't think like women, and chances are you aren't even aware of something bothering him.

It seems to me from the post that this is a one day deal... If so, give him a break. If this is ongoing then it would be worrying.

Just get a syringe (no needle of course) and have him... you know... into a cup. Then use the syringe to put it inside you. That's pretty much how sperm donation pregnancies work. Voila - less 'hard work'. Trying for a kid can be pretty stressful. Kills the mood!

you go buy yourself a pack of NewPorts , gain 30 pounds and **** someone who gives a ****