or he could acknowledge the list for what it is: a contract commercializing sexual relations (establishing a barter rate for two forms of services), and thus change it to monetary terms (ask a maid service what they'd charge for those items). It's just like currency conversion. Then ask for the money instead, and then spend it however he wants. Including on taking other women out to dinner. Or, since he has his own money (presumably), add his own funds either toward taking other women out, hookers... or, again, just convert currency: pay his wife the going conversion rate for "2300 points" (as established by the market rate of what maids charge for those chores) ... just pay her in cash. For anyone who balks: the wife is the one who established that having sex with her is a service to be traded. She's the one who brought prostitution into the relationship. Not the husband, not me (for making these suggestions). I'm just suggesting that the husband take her actions to their full meaning.

Yes, what a great idea. 1. Turn your marriage into a contract in which you sell sex in exchange for favors. Make sure your daughter knows that being a hooker is the best for of relationship management. 2. Explain how if you don't want to put out, an really unrealistic goal in exchange for emotionless sex, is easier than just womaning up and asking for a divorce. Good plan.