#7 agreed all the way

I'm almost 21 and never kissed a guy either. The only time it ever bothers me is when I get all these messages from "society" in general about how it must mean I'm inadequate in same way. There's no right or wrong time to have any of these experiences. It's right whenever you think it's right. I chose not to get shitfaced drunk and make out with the first guy who hit on me like most of the girls I know. I chose not to date any of the insanely immature guys that I come across just for the "experience." I know lots of girls who felt like they were "late" in terms of being kissed and having sex, and they just threw it away just so they could say "yeah, I've done that." I have no problem waiting for someone who accepts me for who I am and someone who I actually really like. And I've found that there are a lot of people who are like me and like you, so you're not alone even though it seems like it.

okay well get off the internet and start whoring yourself around. will that make you feel more accepted?

im with #54. im 17 i get asked out every week, and still havent kissed a guy eh. why bother?

aw, don't worry about it. i've been in that situation before and while it sucks, don't rush it either. go watch "never been kissed" and you'll feel better about it, knowing someday you'll find a good guy who will be worth that first kiss.

You tell 'em #21! Seriously. High school is 5 ******* years out of your life! You got your first kiss at 20? Boo hoo. You'll only have 60 years to have FULFILLING romantic relationships, eh? The ***** get around 20 years to enjoy an STD before they drop dead. Who the hell can say "You should have had a kiss by (10,15,20)?" You have a kiss when you have a kiss, and because someone is anxious to ***** themselves for acceptance we put them on a pedestal. If you had your first kiss at four and a half, does that mean you're a *****? NO! Jesus, don't ever give someone else the right to analyze your life. NO one, NO ONE, came from your family, your background, or shared your dad's sperm. Rock on, #64! Society tells us who is a "loser" and who isn't. I'll be honest. I'm embarrassed too to admit these things in real life. And to be honest, I care what people think because I'm human. I think there are so many people that feel like this but the web of lies has been spun.

#69 is fantastic. :] Don't worry about it. I'm sixteen, and I've only kissed one guy.

hahahahahah #36 is my hero.

how old are you?

lol i love the softball sterotypes because it is so true!!! my team has like 7 or 8 lesbians on the team, some of which came out this year.