The big reveal

By victoriassecret - 03/03/2010 09:24 - United States

Spicy
Today, I finally felt ready to take my bra off during sex. My breasts had "deflated" somewhat due to weight loss and I was really self-conscious about them, but my boyfriend insisted I was hot no matter what. When the bra came off, the dick got soft. FML
I agree, your life sucks 35 691
You deserved it 4 143

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Honey, I think if anyone feels awkward over that incident it should be him, not you.

KayBizz 0

damn :( if he won't hit it u can holla at me :)

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YDI for having flapjack ****. If he goes limp it's your job to get him hard again. That's what fluffers do, long before they invented the little blue pill. Learn how to please your man and stop being so selfish.

honestlove11 0

oh. my. gahhh. PLEASE tell me you're kidding. our "job"?! umm, I don't know if you've realized this, loser, but sex involves TWO people. do you know how many girls aren't even turned on during sex cuz the guys think weeeee are the ones keeping it sexy? seriously, if you're not kidding, do me a favor and kick yourself in the hangdown :)

rellik81 0

That is so not cool!!! Dump the asshole!!!

tell him to get the **** over himself, if he loves you he shouldn't care about something like that so much that he looses his hard on. just talk to him about it.

Awkwardness happens. Laugh it off. He's the one who can't keep his dick up. PS -- I also don't understand keeping the bra on on a regular basis. It sounds like someone who thinks that having sex with the lights on is kinky.

YDI for being so self conscious about your **** and not showing them earlier

Trixies100 0

that happens to most during weight Loss it ok.

Radi0Waves 0

he could have just gotten nervous considering how much pressure you were putting on him to still find you attractive. Anxiety (and poor cardiovascular performance, but unless he's 40 or 50 that shouldn't be an issue) is a leading cause of dysfunction. Don't necessarily take it as an insult -- it could just be that he cares about your feelngs and got lost in his head. Don't put so much pressure on yourself, just enjoy each other.

that's because you made a big deal about it. being comfortable with yourself is hot. being weird about body parts is not.