@51, addiction doesn't work that way.

thats harshh. i hope you dumped that loser.

This happens all the time. Some men get addicted to **** or something, then they get married, and it never resolves itself. The fact is, it's an addiction and many men have problems with it even though they're married. I've known people who been married for 20 some years, and the men frequently view pornographic materials. It's a very hard habit to break and it isn't "natural." The addiction is in line of OCD and many men feel the need to discuss it with their significant other but usually the other is not very supportive or understanding of the problem. It isn't about the other person, but rather a personal demon that is very hard to get over. However, they do have a support group just for this behavior. If you seriously have addiction to ****, they do have group meetings with therapists that you can go to. It consists of like minded men and you just talk about the addiction. The goal of the group therapy is that most men feel ashamed of their addiction and by talking about it out in the open and finding that others have the same problem, they sort of stop the behavior because it is no longer "wrong." To the person who made this FML, I think you should be ashamed of yourself. It was probably very hard for him to tell you about it, and if you dump it for it, that's up to you, but I'm sure it would cause a serious defeat to his self-esteem as well as continue his addiction.

Now that's just creepy...

I agree with #1. Sounds like he was trying for something.

Well if you put out, it'll become a sex addiction instead of masturbation. Score4him! - S.

So, is this "new boyfriend" your "new ex-boyfriend" or what?

he probably just wanted you to suck him during the 2 hour car ride

ok chill out people that are calling her a bitch, she said this was a NEW boyfriend. i agree with everybody that said this was a little early in a relationship for that kind of admission. i mean, who wouldn't feel a little awkward after that kind of thing and you're sitting in a car for 2 hours... and #54, no need to preach so much. it's fmylife.com not...something else that's more preachy

I still don't understand what is so bad about masturbation and why some people see such a problem with it. Some women are just as "addicted" [if you will] to it as men are. Masturbation is not a bad thing. The only thing that I could see as "bad" about it would be if he masturbated too much the day you two decided to have sex and he couldn't get it up. And I agree with 54, it really probably was a blow to his self-esteem for you to consider this an FML. But this is all a matter of opinion.