#105 He could have completely hid it from her. Not had a Myspace or Facebook or had two (though he would have to put different names so she couldn't find it in search). Honestly some guys do lead double lifes. He could have been really into the whole thing and cleaned up every time after she left and before she came over. She could have been way to trusting. Things happen, maybe she thought something was weird but believed him, we'll never know!

Wow... you're such a sl*t that it came back to bite you in the butt. I actually feel sorry for you, almost as much as I do the girl. The guy, however, I have no sympathy for at all. At LEAST you were single... although selfish and whorey. Just take this as a lesson that you need to get your life together- you know, stop having sex so easily, find out more about your partners before you give it up, have some standards, maybe find God (would help you out). You dont sound like a totally bad girl, just a misled one. I believe in you. Just try not to do this kind of stuff to other girls in the future... ok?

Classy.

haha thats sweet as hell, you deserve my fml vote cuz now you have no one to have sex with!

i agree with number #72

Well-said, #88.

Well-said, #88

*****...like most women

#115 Wrong gist. Of course I would have the same opinion; it has nothing to do with gender. I think this is my bad for not explaining what I meant properly. What I mean about having no connections is that there is no emotional connection, so it is much easier for the third party to walk away. If they choose not to, then I think they’re just as shitty as the cheater, if not more so. I guess I think that for the cheater, it is more a lapse in willpower/decency than it is a choice, whereas for the third party it is more of a choice than anything else. And even then I’m not saying all the blame is on the third party, more of a 60/40 thing – but then, every situation is different. Just so we’re clear, I only feel this way about people who *know* their target is off-limits and still choose to pursue them. If the third party had no idea, then no blame can be attributed to them.

I don't really get all the "*****," "*****," etc. comments. Do you KNOW she's a *****? Jeez, that guy could have told her absolutely nothing about having a girlfriend, and she gets a rude awakening when she's sleeping with a guy she likes and in walks some chick screeching about her sleeping with her boyfriend.