But they put "choking hazard" labels on small objects. She might not be in deep trouble but she should still be caution.

#32, yes, but these are small parts that can become detached. This guy might not like his penis, but sadly, it can't come off.

36 - It might not come off, but I'm sure he'd like to get off

Why isn't anyone mentioning that penis pumps would enlarge OP's penis, when needed? Also, there are plenty of moves that work with a small penis; it just takes more effort. Either way, the wife was a bitch to laugh at him. If it was a girlfriend, I'd suggest OP leaves her. But they are legally bound so it isn't as easy.

Well I don't see a problem with it. My husband was my first.

#45, had you seen or felt your husband's penis before you said "I do?"

45: true, but did you laugh uncontrollably at how small his penis was until he posted about it on FML and possibly permanently scar his self-esteem?

No to both of you.

were you your husbands first?

No again.

Are you willing to give this exact advice/example to your daughter, Doc?

I guess it depends how much you hate your daughter - this advice could reduce the likelihood that she will get stuck in a marriage with miserable sex which will likely negatively impact her happiness for years and years. So yes, if you really want her to suffer and be unhappy for the rest of her life, by all means never provide healthy, good advice.

113- are you currently an actual father with an actual daughter who is old enough to discuss such things with? (Apparently the current appropriate age for such discussions is 3 these days) If you are, then good for you, I guess. If you are not, you might change your mind later on when you are in said situation and refrain from spewing book theories to your daughter advising her to jump from a lap (putting it lightly here) to another until she finds the perfect fit if ever. Seriously, what happened to couples discussing things? If the sex is bad at first, can't they just talk about it and find ways to enhance it anymore? Are they now doomed in a "lifetime misery or disloyalty" if they try to communicate instead of "hey, let me **** everything that moves -or doesn't- before I get married just to be sure"?

#121, I am not an actual father with an actual daughter who is old enough to discuss such things with. I am a father's daughter and am old enough to discuss such things. Does that make me any less qualified to have an opinion? I am thankful that my parents never advised me to jump from lap to lap, nor to 'save myself for marriage'. They taught me to consider my actions and my decisions carefully, to think about consequences, about what's important, gather all the information I need to choose what I believe is best for me. Of course couples should discuss things and find ways to make sex better. That goes for any couple. Sometimes, these discussions and attempts to improve things just don't work out, for whatever reason, because not all things in life always work out. Wouldn't it be better to know about and address these things during those years of monogamous committed relationship BEFORE saying 'I do'? If you are to trust and love and be with your significant other in marriage, doesn't it make sense that you'd want to know what you're signing up for, in terms of identity, personality, maturity, family, medical history, financial situation? As an important part in a relationship, why would sex not be on that list?

125- No, that doesn't make you less qualified to give an opinion, but while your opinion is right, it wont match that of an actual father in said situation. Sex should not be off the list, but it shouldn't be the very first thing on it either. These days people "date" just to have sex and then take it from there. "Yes, I am ste

Stupid fingers. 125- No, that doesn't make you less qualified to give an opinion, but while your opinion is right, it wont match that of an actual father in said situation. Sex should not be off the list, but it shouldn't be the very first thing on it either. These days people "date" just to have sex and then take it from there. "Yes, I am stereotyping because a stereotype means the majority and its stereotyped for a reason". I agree with you that sometimes discussions can't solve such issues, but then again as you said, things changes, and sex becomes worst than when they first "checked" which I believe is far more common than the former case. Also, kindly excuse any type of language mistakes I make. English is not even my third language.

Would you buy underwear with out trying it on? ;)

Thank you, 132, I will be using that from now on. That's brilliant.

Still sad...

sad but true ;)

What? Did OP "poke" you?

#25, he's gotta use that nubbin for rubbin'.

as Buckwheat would say, "Looking for nub in all the wrong places" or SOMETHING along those lines. Lol. (OLD Saturday Night Live reference)