wow, that was harsh. If my bf had small dick I wouldn't even mention something like that. it sure can kill self confidence in a man. especially if he was holding back for 34 years (omg, why???)

that's nasty.

At least you are still a virgin. Keep it for someone who deserves it.

awww Dude I am so sorry.

Well since you didn't consummate, get it annulled. She clearly doesn't deserve your virginity anyway.

This is why I'm AGAINST waiting til marriage for sex. I mean if that's your thing, that's great, but sexual compatibility can be a pretty important aspect of a healthy long term relationship. I hope you can talk to your wife and explain your feelings. I mean, you're married, I'd expect you two to be completely open with one another. You need to find out what her sexual needs and desires are and do your best to fulfill them. That might mean spending a bit of extra time pleasing her before/after intercourse or perhaps involving a sex toy. Sex definitely isn't everything in a relationship, but it's a big part of normal human sexuality that you really can't just ignore or settle on if you want a truly great relationship.

hmmm....sounds like an open marriage/relationship kinda solution may enter into said situation very shortly lol

Good for you for waiting for sex OP, but you should've talked about stuff like this with her before marrying. If you 2 are sexually compatible it probably isn't gonna work. I'm also kinda surprised it never come up in a conversation.

That's what happens when you don't text drive it before marriage.

My husband and I waited till marriage. I would've never said something like that. I feel for yea :/