Mauskau, there are plenty of genuine guys that would gladly help her take care of someone elses child. Hopefully she doesn't call it off on the count that the father is obviously brain damaged. If she can't handle it herself, with the little bit of help the government will give her free of charge, then maybe it is the only option.

I'm sure there are worse things you could do. Like getting rid of a child just because a man isn't man enough to stick around and be a father. There are plenty of people, unfortunate as it is, that turn out just fine from a single parent household.

I don't think that you should kill the fetus because a man is not around. I grew up just me and my mother living in an apartment. My father never pays the child support either. We both lived on minnimum wage for the first five years of my life. Then her family helped with raising me. Tl;dr: I didn't need a father in my life, and I never will. We had my mothers family. And I had a great childhood with them alone.

It puts unnecessary stress on the mother if she has to do it on her own. Plus I'm pretty sure anyone would rather the guy to be there than not, if he hasn't done it with his previous child he probably won't now so OP could be in for a surprise.

He must already have a pair. Pay attention.

37 - This coming from the person who spells "your" as "ur" and "and" as "n". I personally wouldn't take advice from you.

That's snobbish..

62 - it's fml. You will see that a lot here. If you can't beat them. (most likely you can't) join them!