At least your wife wasn't too bothered by it. Honestly I'm a little disgusted by some of the comments here. Yes, what your dad said is wrong, no doubt about that, but advocating cutting your dad out of your life over it? Mine makes similar comments and racist comments, but at the same time he supports marriage equality and works for a human rights organization... Some people are just odd. :) He's your dad, you're stuck with him.

I think that basically, your father denies his homosexuality.

Feelings and sharing are feminine to insecure macho men. And if you're a feminine man, you might as well be a **** to them.

even though you dad is rude... its actually funny timing and your wife got it well...

It sucks your dad didn't even bother to come to your wedding OP. That's a **** thing to do.

This kinda made me sad

I'm sure he didn't just turn into an Asshole, you just need to stop trying to please him, when you act like you don't care about what that idiot thinks, that's when he will start treating you with respect, your wife hates the way you try to please him, that's why she laughed so hard, because you look pathetic kissing his ass! MAN UP!

At least she's gotta sense of humor

I don't see how wanting to sharing an important event in your life with your father is feminine. It's really not.

Haha! That does suck. Don't worry, your wife probably just has a great sense of humour and didn't take it seriously. :)