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Then why would you cheat on him
She didnt he cheated on her...
I am so sorry. obviously he's just using that as an excuse to make it ok with you. it is not
So sorry for your experience: this can also happen after 18 years of marriage so the silver lining is that you avoided a longer entanglement with an individual who needs therapy.
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Lol exact same thing happened to me. Spilled his guts out to me about all the girls who cheated on him and how he's so self conscious that he isn't good enough and how all the cheating hurt him and made him cry. He told me he never cheated on anyone, even when they cheated on him several times. Guess what? He ended up kissing his female friend one month into our relationship and told me he did it because he's always been secretly in love with her, after we had a talk saying we both don't mind if we have friends of the opposite sex. And guys wonder why we don't like them having female friends or even talking to other women. Only took a month to ruin that trust lol.
Yes, because every guy who has female friends is going to do that... I get where you're coming from, and you definitely have a reason to not trust it after what you've been through, but that "guys wonder why we don't like them having female friends" line is really unfair. I have several male friends who have never once cheated on their girlfriends with other girls they knew. Please don't generalize just because one guy you went out with was an ass.
literally no one said every guy who has female friends cheats, 23. chill
I'm sorry to hear this happened to you. seems like he's a dick
I think there was a study done that found that the less a person trusted their partner to stay loyal, the more likely the person was to cheat on their partner... Either way, this is really unfortunate. Him cheating is all on him, OP. Him being worried you would cheat on him was almost 100% a lie to justify cheating in his mind. If you've had sex with him at any point, you should get tested for STD's, especially since he cheated on you.
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Always seems to be that whatever your SO is constantly accusing you of, they're almost certainly guilty of. ****** up. You're better off OP, stay strong!
Always seems to happen like that. It may not feel like it at the moment, but you're better off <3 hope you're okay OP