By Anonymous - 22/05/2009 22:24 - United States

Spicy
Today, I decided to give my virginity to my boyfriend of four months, because I told him I loved him. Two minutes after he'd pulled out, he grabs his cell and mass texts "I FINALLY GOT LAID!". FML
I agree, your life sucks 72 148
You deserved it 26 257

Same thing different taste

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kwbuzz23wk 0

you had sex with him because you told him you loved him? there has to be other/better reasons

Is he thirteen or something? Seriously. People sure know how to pick 'em these days.

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If I had sex with every girl who said they "loved" me, I'd have so many babies running around. People throw the word "love" around too much these days. Also, I know where the guys coming from. I felt like doing the same thing after the first time I got laid. I didn't but good lord I wanted to.

Awwe, that's awful. He doesn't sound like a very good boyfriend.. special stuff like that should be kept between you two, so it seems like a special moment(especially since it was your first time). Maybe you should talk to him and let him know you want it to be more exclusive.

boltsfan 0

That was me. Lawl Jk I had that happe to me but I liked a condom and it all felt better. Anal intercourse is good!

I find it seriously weird how people have said in the comments of several FMLs recently that having sex after one or four months makes one a ****. Once you start having adult relationships in your twenties, those are perfectly, perfectly reasonable time frames. Heck, sleeping together on the first date is fine if that's what you want to do, and it doesn't make you a ****. No one says a guy is a **** or anything like that if he has a one-night stand - if anything, his friends will congratulate him. One-night stands aren't my scene, but I don't think badly of people who choose to do so as consenting adults. OP: that was really insensitive of your boyfriend, and I'm sorry. :(

#44- love has no age limit jus because someones 15 does not mean they can't be in love. Im 16 and im n love. And its her choice too decide when she wants too give up her virginity. Its her first time so it Doesn't make her a tramp or **** she jus made a wrong decision and everyone makes mistakes even you

I think anyone that can seriously sit here and bash this poor girl is absolutely ridiculous. Everyone is clearly entitled to their own opinion but make it reasonable and look at the times. I mean kids are having bloody kids these days! Some teenagers are more mature than more 25 yr olds i know! So really have an open mind about a situation that happened like this. What if you were in this position. She lost her damn virginity for gods sakes and you guys are calling her a *****? Grow up seriously. How many people did all you out there sleep with by the time you were 18? I'm not sitting here saying I'm a saint or a devil, but no one is perfect. Love ISNT something lightly to throw around but how many times have we all thought we were "in love" with someone in some sort of way? Sure enough this situation does suck... but one question i do have to ask..... what in the world made you think blabbing it to the world would do? It clearly didnt do you any justice, personally I would have kept this to myself and not have told a single soul and ya... probably denied it or bit back with a smart ass remark to make him look ridiculous but you shouldnt be embarrassed seeing as how you wanted it cuz you were 'in love' with him. You dont deserve the negative remarks but you dont deserve sympathy either. Truthfully it sucks, but realistically its kinda funny at the same time. Not sure how old you are but this is definately something my guy friends did when they were 14-17 haha

everydayisFML 0

YDI for thinking you're in love with a guy you've been with 4 months.

#67 omg please marry me, it’s just so hard to find a normal girl these days. ....... seriously