Invite her to the party.

that really sucks.. but you should bring a boyfriend to party, when he gets pissed you can tell him it's only fair since you invite his girlfriend. :) Don't believe what people say, revenge is much sweeter.

How can you talk it out? You loose trust and faith instantly. Divorce is the only answer, I know if my husband ever cheated on me, I could NEVER let him touch me sexually again knowing our marriage wasn't worth him fighting for or talking to about. I highly doubt as well you stumbled upon that tho, you don't just stumble upon things like that. You snooped, but he still cheated.

FIRST!!!! Bury me Bitches!

You know when someone finds something and says "It was in the last place I looked." I say, "Of course it was, if you kept looking after you found it, you'd be an idiot." I guess what they should say is that it was in the last place they were going to look before they gave up. That doesn't mean that there weren't more numbers in the phone, but once you find the girlfriend, the party planning suddenly becomes much less urgent. You should have played dumb and assumed she was just a female friend and invited her. There you could have regaled her with hilarious stories of his skid-marked underwear, his penis pump, his incessant farting, his collegiate sexcapades with farm animals, his child sex-offender conviction, his hair plugs, his prison sodomy experiences, his affinity for gay ****, etc., etc. You'll run her off real good, and then you can decide to what you want to do with that sack of shit.

Surprise him by tying him up like it'll be a fun sex game. Then, force his mouth open and take a shit in his mouth. Leave him tied up, pack all your things, and leave the house.

you better not **** block him, thats the worst, you probally deserved to be cheated on anyway

Jakkke, that wasnt very nice. just cos someone wants thier space and privacy it doesnt mean theyre hiding anythng. somepeople need boundries and she should respect that.

Seriously, an invasion of privacy? Are any of you married? There isn't any privacy between spouses. I check my husband's email all the time. I ask him to check mine for me if I can't. We use each other's phones, all the time, and therefore look through each other's call logs. We use each other's laptops, and therefore can look at whatever is on there. We don't have any secrets, we don't have anything hidden. And we do all of these things in front of each other- there is no snooping. OP- that sucks. Wow. I'm really sorry.

Are you kidding me??? I'm a little disturbed at some of the people making it about the guy's privacy. At this point the arguement of it being about his privacy has long since been thrown out the window. At the end of the day, if he was dumb enough to cheat, then he was dumb enough to get caught, regardless of her going through his phone. And for gods' sake, its not like she was scrolling through incriminating pieces of evidence like texts or call logs that indicate lengthy conversations with said babe, she was looking through his CONTACTS. I mean, what was she supposed to say. "Oh darnit!! Hun?? I went through your phone and found out you're cheating on me again. ::sigh:: yes I know, I'm sorry, I swear it won't happen again...silly of me to discover secrets you're clearly hellbent on keeping from me.." I pity those of you who live in your blissful ignorance of "It's his/her privacy, and thus none of my concern." If she had caught an STD from him and his sleeping around, I'm sure that'd have been none of her business either... The point is if she hadn't gone through his phone, regardless of what her intentions were, she may not have ever discovered the kind of man who she is really married to, would have carried on in what she thought was a happy marriage when in actuality she was being screwed over. Kudos to her for finding out sooner than later, and screw those of you who thinks she deserved it because she peeked through his phone.