Actually, I believe it. I'm 20 and a virgin, have friends who are also in their early 20's and virgins. Not all teenagers run out to lose it as soon as possible. Some of us respect ourselves. For troll clarification - all of us have had boyfriends for between 4 years and 5 months. Still no sex. Capish? OP, take time, find someone you care for and who cares for you. That's the right way to go about losing your virginity. Be certain they are worth your time, and that they won't try to mess you up. Sex with the wrong person will do this. I nearly lost it to a guy who ended up stealing from me and basically tried to force me. Such people aren't worth it and I would have regretted it for years if I'd caved.

you can't be sure.

50. Not what I think. What I know for a fact. There are Dads out there that have excellent relationships with their kids.

You should be very proud. :)

Did you know that 99% of all statistics are made up? There is nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin at 16, like there is nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with losing your virginity at 14. The only thing I hope with young teens having sex is that they know what and with who they're doing it. No complains afterwards, it's everybody's own responsibility.

DjeePee - Article 372 of the Belgian Criminal Code appears to disagree with you on the "there is nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with losing your virginity at 14" part.

#69 People who are neither emotionally nor financially ready for sex and its consequences shouldn't have sex, at any age. At 14, people simply aren't ready, beyond the biological. There are actually valid reasons for laws against sex with minors.

And in Spain it's ok to have sex at 13. I'm not highly enthusiastic with young teenagers having sex, but I agree with Djeepee, having sex at 16 is not necessarily being a ****, and the most important is not the age, but being responsible enough - and want it for real, not just to brag. -------- If OP is really annoyed because she's still a virgin at 16, she should grow up, just a little... But that's true a kind of social pressure is going on in school, and, depends on schools or maybe on backgrounds but sometimes being a virgin is not very well seen. Then, maybe OP is more annoyed by people apparently laughing at her than by her actual virginity.

Zebidee, they are trying to change the law into '14-years olds may have sex, as long as it is with people around the same age'. But, still, the law... Sex is a personal choice, and as long as both persons agree with it, what's the problem? I know, the law is there merely to protect naïef teens for creepy old men, but I think teens should be responsible enough to make the (in their opinion) right decision about whether or not have sex. Besides, we can't project them. It's not like the law will stop them if they really want. And Redpill, what about poor people? Never have sex? Never have fun? Only a miserable life? Anticonception excists for a reason. Oh, and I don't think most 14-year old are biologically ready. Most 14-year ols also doesn't have sex. Which, imo, is good. But I'm just all for personal choices.

DjeePee, I'd like to think young people like this person and fourteen-year-olds (and me) are all responsible and mature enough to make an informed decision, too, but the fact is, regrettably, most of us aren't.

But who are you to say that? Which criteria do you use for 'being mature'? And why should someone who isn't mature anough cannot make their own decisions? What with the people who never will be mature? Everybody needs to learn how to life, therefore, everybody (who isn't mentally handicapped) must make their own important decisions. Is it so wrong to make mistakes? No. It's not pleasant, but it's something you'll learn about. Teens also have the right to make mistakes, so that they (hopefully) can learn about it. Most 14-year olds aren't mature, but most 14-year olds don't have sex. But if they want to, nobody can and has the right to forbid it. The only thing I should do if I think someone is acting very stupid/naïef is have a serious talk with them.

Look, I have no problem at all with lower age of consent laws. I especially think that the places where it's 18 are just kidding themselves. In Australia, it's 16, and here in Germany it's 14 or 16 depending on circumstance. The thing with those laws is that it doesn't matter what the people themselves want, the law takes that choice away from them. The problem with your scenario is that what the 14 year old says is irrelevant, and not even a defence in court. I don't disagree with your moral point, just your legal one.

i agree with djeepee. im a 17y.o. guy that is still a virgin. if teens like myself want to have sex at let us. aint nothin you can do thats gone stop us. yes we have our own opions about this but its our life. let us live it how we want. most teens probably will wait for the right person but if someone with more experience comes along we are more willing to have sex. OP do whatever the hell you want. just make sure you use protection.

Hey, I'm not trying to disagree with the fact that people should make their own decisions. I just don't agree with a lot of them. It's not my position to impose.

What the ****? Sex at fourteen is fine? What kind of twisted sense of reality are you talking about? Kids can't even drive yet. Seems a bit strange that mom and dad have to drop them off somewhere to get some action going.

*sigh* 69 if only that were true then I wouldn't be failing my stats class.

meh i lost my virginity at fourteen was a mistake but people make mistakes to learn ... just be carefull op dont go get herpes crabs or pregnant :D

I'm 14 and I almost lost my virginity but then again I was drunk

181- stfu. you arent helping any

And what if you were called by someone you didn't know to tell you someone you DID know had been in a deadly car accident? It's a foolish way to behave to ignore a call just because you don't recognise the number.

Plus, sometimes, someone you DO know can call from a number you don't recognize, like one of THEIR friends phone, if they've misplaced their own phone.

If someone you knew died in a car crash. It really won't make a difference whether you know now or in a couple of hours.

go get some save our souls? dont you mean asap? as soon as possible?

Dude she's 16 quit promoting the possibility of either an aborted fetus or a child who's life is ****** up.

...ewww

Call me up as well, we'll make it a 3 way...hey first time's gotta be special right? =)