By tarini - 27/05/2009 20:12 - Bangladesh

Today, I got an acceptance later to a great boarding school in India for my senior year of high school. I sent them a letter telling them I wouldn't go, because I just got back with my ex-boyfriend. I just got a text from my boyfriend. Guess who's my ex again? FML
I agree, your life sucks 19 743
You deserved it 122 087

Same thing different taste

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maxv_15 0

DUUUUURRRRRRRRRR. you so deserved that one. making life changing decisions based on your EX boyfriend... HAHAHA. YOU LOSE

Jordie210 0

wow. don't let a boy stop you from doing something you want to do.

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why would you want to choose a boy over an education you have your whole life ahead of you for boys . but that's a once in a life time oppertunity! jeezz .. . .

I agree with all of the above comments, you deserve it for making long term decisions about your career based on your high school boyfriend. You'd make a great 1940's housewife, tough.

cheerthefkupism 0

I'm sorry you gave up your education for a boyfriend. I did this once too, but everything turned out for the best. learn from this, but read my story and consider that it can still turn out to be one of those things that you may look back on, say "Maybe it was meant to be," and smile: I got into Ohio State, which was my dream school from like, birth? Hah. My boyfriend of three years didn't. I decided to go to a different college with him, where we got an apartment together. A couple months into the semester, guess who was pregnant? And then dumped when I told him about being pregnant because I was asking him to alter -his- life by keeping the baby. I quit the semester, and moved back in with my parents sometime in November. After I moved home I didn't hear from him for -weeks-. I was starting to come to terms with the fact that I was going to be a single mom. Christmas break I wondered if I would run into him, as I was sure he would probably come home to see his family. He called me, asked me to come over. Which I did, only to get into a fight with him as he -PLEADED- that I "at least" consider adoption if I wouldn't abort, because he missed me and wanted to be with me but just wasn't ready to be a dad. It was a full blown winter blizzard by now. I went to leave and he told me not to be stupid, to please stay the night and not drive in that. I said "Like you care, maybe I'll get into an accident and lose the baby, right?" He just shook his head and I left. I got in the car and started bawling before I ever started the car and cried myself to sleep there. He thought I had left and texted me several times to see if I'd made it home yet and when I never answered he went outside to get in his car to drive to my house, to find my car still there. He opened my car door without waking me, took my keys, and carried me into his living room (I was out cold) and put me on the couch with some blankets... I woke up in the middle of tonight to find his arms around me lifting me off the couch (I was too tired and confused to protest) and he carried me upstairs to his bed and curled up with me and cried. Three years together and this was the FIRST time I'd been in his bed. His folks were VERY strict. They didn't know I was pregnant yet, although I'm sure given the fact we had lived in an apartment together they probably could guess that we were sexually active. The next morning I woke up alone in his bed and could hear voices downstairs. I eavesdropped at the top and could hear the conversation... he was telling them about my pregnancy. It wasn't going well. So I went downstairs and they all gave me -terrible- looks and I said "Look, by now I know I'm doing this alone. If I'm going to be a single mom, I'm going to do it entirely on my own, not be one of these woman who want child support or anything else. If he doesn't want the baby, which I know now, then I don't want anything from him. So... you have nothing to worry about. He's not obligated to anything." I looked at him, who looked mortified and said "Can you give me my keys and let me go home now?" Somehow the harsh reality that I meant what I said hit him... hard. Everything has changed and I believe I have that experience, which I now dub "The Blizzard" to thank for it. Fastforward: We are happily married. He quit school to join The Marines (which has been wonderful for him; he's done alot of growing up.) And I went back to school and am halfway through my Associates. We have a beautiful lil one named Sophia, who btw is a total daddy's girl. I would've never thought things would have turned out this way, and thank god for my blessings everyday. I guess what I'm trying to say is that sometimes when you sacrifice things, and then find yourself in a position where you feel like "Well, I just screwed myself." karma/God/whatever has this amazing way of doing more than its share of making it up to you. May it come its way for you.

Wow.. that was a totally amazing story. I'm glad to hear that everything seems to be working out well for you and your family. : )

you are an F-ing id10t! grow up, who does that?? you should just drop out of high school you don't deserve to graduate

what's the worst case scenario??? ur bf got into that boarding school... because some1 dropped out

bigrederin 0

That's what you get for making decisions based upon what a man wants. Hopefully, you'll use this as a lesson to make decisions based on what's good for YOU, not what your **** du jour wants.

justinsbaby291 0

NEVER let a guy mess up your education plans, if he loves you that much he'll come with you and if not then its just not meant to be...there are such things as long distance relationships too

LilleyWhite 0

why would you right a letter telling them all about you getting back together with your boyfriend? They don't care, they just were offering you a spot

Taylor258 0

Oh wow that sucks but you shouldn't have not goe to that school just because of a boy he wasn't right before wat makes him right