I am shocked at how many people became upset about the "blaming" they inferred from this comment. And then the rush of people in content marriages who sleep apart. It was valid, but defensive and condescending. But I was the child of parents who slept apart because they didn't love or even like each other. And all they taught us was to suffer through unhappiness, and to never want for more than isolation. I had to learn about family on my own. Some people, maybe OP, just need to get OUT OF YOUR MARRIAGE. It might SAVE your family. Any way, can't we all agree that for what ever reason, this is a real FML? The disappointment, alone. That is the FML.

if you can't even stand to share a bed with him why are you marrued?

You're both doing something wrong if the idea of sharing a bed with your spouse is disappointing or dreaded.