By nolovefor21 - 16/01/2014 11:45 - Australia - Wentworthville

Today, I hacked into my best friend's Facebook account to message my mother about organizing a surprise party for myself for my 21st. She ignored the message for two days before replying, "I don't think so. No one would really show up and I think that would hurt her feelings." FML
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nolovefor21 tells us more.

nolovefor21 1

OP here, I didnt "hack" into her account really, I asked her if I could use her account to try and plan myself a surprise party.. Mainly because Ive always wanted one but never had anyone step up to do it. She gave me her password so I could do it. But apparently that was a waste of time according to my mother...

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Top comments

chuka81 27

I'm not surprised that no one would show up for your birthday party. You apparently invade the privacy of your friends. YDI.

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meirginsburg18 10

well I guess its time to organize your own birthday party :)

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Xotoolyxo 16

Ouch, never ask a question to the answer you aren't ready for

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missyb94 6

Wouldn't your friend see the Facebook messages? I mean unless she's never on and you delete them but I feel that you're a few clowns short of a circus to think about that.

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Zebediabolical 39

Did you ever consider that it took your mom two days to answer because she talked to your 'best friend' and they set you up? I know my moms would get the FB message and call the person to discuss it in real time rather than type it out.

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freeznFrenky 2

Well if, from a distance, you can observe the case like that, you only have to become aware of who and what you are. Start believing in yourselve! You are much more worth than you believe for yourself.

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ctchan2381 5

you hack into someone's private account and still have the decency to call yourself her friend? You don't deserve a birthday party and maybe that's why no one will come to your party.

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Blink_me26 21

Normally I would put YDI for going onto your friend's account but that's just sad. Cheer up OP, most people organize their own 21st. I did, and was disappointed by the many who didn't come. You can always join our ranks.

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nolovefor21 1

OP here, I didnt "hack" into her account really, I asked her if I could use her account to try and plan myself a surprise party.. Mainly because Ive always wanted one but never had anyone step up to do it. She gave me her password so I could do it. But apparently that was a waste of time according to my mother...

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Ksweety_fml 27

Go out then!. Your 21. Go to the strip club, heyyy!....

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kelsey_loo 12

it isn't much of a surprise if you have to plan it yourself.

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MattAttack12 10

It's not really a surprise if you plan it yourself...

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packrat 26

Oddly OP, I get where you are coming from. Having someone that organizes you a surprise party is someone who cares, and does stuff that will make you feel special and loved without you having to ask. However, if you want a party at all, the foolproof way is just to organize it yourself. If your friend hasn't shown any interest in doing something like that for you, despite what your mother said, I'd leave the surprise out of the party this time around.

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allie2590 31

That's still weird, OP. Why didn't you just get your friend to do it then? This whole FML is full of contradictions though.

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Axel5238 29

Exactly, even if the OP mentioned that originally it's still weird to do. Also stating it was a hack to change it to well I had my friend's permission it is still weird. Doesn't make it much better, and still seems sad that also the friend agreed to give the OP the password info for the Facebook account doesn't seem right.

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frizz101 22

Just go out with a few close friends OP it would be way better than a surprise party

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BoltTheSuperdog 22

I have never seen a follow-up get buried with negative votes before!

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Saicere 15

OP, the only people that came to my 21st were a friend I rarely see and a friend of hers who I didn't know. It was still one of the best nights out, and one of the best birthdays I've had. **** surprise parties, go out and get hammered! :D

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xReDMemory 28

After reading this,I'd still press YDI for trying to manipulate your mother into making you a surprise party.

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LadyLol_fml 15

The mother's not really a bitch though, is she? All she was trying to do was when you look at it was make sure that OP doesn't get hurt on her birthday. I don't understand why the mother's being vilified.

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fakedsincerity 32

Try and ditch your insecurities as a 21st birthday present to yourself instead of trying to create some fantasy. You're an adult now!

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MzZombicidal 36

Come on, OP, you can have fun without trying to manipulate your family... All I did for my 21st was go out to dinner and a movie with friends and family. You can easily have a good time. Also, it's not much of a surprise party when you're planning it yourself...

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HammyBear13 8

You know what I did for my 21st? I changed shitty diapers. I didnt go out and get drunk, didnt have a party, nobody told me happy birthday. Your an adult now, suck it up OP.

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happyfingers 15

As much as that sucks that is what you get for trying to organize your own surprise party. :P

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Ksweety_fml 27

Forget a Birthday party. Go out then, your 21.

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vbzy 11

Your friend should have asked your mom for you OP! If your friend is going to give you permission to "hack" on to her FB, she should just ask your mom for you!

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