Kids: Today, I had to yet again tell my mother-in-law that I wasn't...

By futuremum - 22/03/2012 17:14 - United Kingdom - Bristol

Today, I had to yet again tell my mother-in-law that I wasn't going to name my unborn baby "Ermintrude" after her late mother. My husband told me to stop being difficult, and that he agrees that it would be nice. FML

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By baby names - 23/09/2018 22:00

Today, I helped a lady give birth on the train. She was so happy she asked if she could name the baby after me, but as I told her my name she visibly turned her nose up at it, turned to her husband, and suggested naming it after his grandfather instead. FML

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By bluebride - 03/02/2010 17:58 - United States

Today, I got married. My mother told me to stop being difficult, because she was the mother of the bride, and it was her day to shine. FML

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By Anonymous - 03/12/2013 00:56 - Mexico - Distrito Federal

Today, I opened my heart to my father-in-law, telling him how he was a very good example for us and how his name would be great for our first born son, he interrupted, saying, "Cut the cheesy crap, now." FML

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By Username - 06/11/2010 17:58 - France

Today, at my cousin's baby shower, there was a discussion on what to name the baby. When the name Jacqueline was brought up, I made a face and exclaimed, "Ugh, I hate that name!" I was then informed that's the name of my cousin's mother-in-law. She definitely heard me. FML

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By Anonymous - 04/06/2009 11:11 - United States

Today, I was reading through a local wedding mag's advice page. A mother-in-law to be was writing about how to handle wanting her son to break off his engagement. I thought, "Wow. That must suck. I'm glad I like my mother-in-law to be." And then I saw her name. FML

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But now…

By Anonymous - 05/09/2018 08:30 - United States - Sewell

Today, my mother-in-law insisted we go to a baby clothing store. When I reminded her that I don’t want children, she sat on the floor, crying, kicking and screaming. She then said I was denying her grandchildren because I hate her. Well, I didn’t… FML

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Classic narcissist

By Vanessa - 28/04/2021 13:59

Today, my mother-in-law had a bitch fit because I had a miscarriage and my husband and I are having a difficult time. It’s her birthday and she said I should, “stop being an attention-hogging drama queen” and that, “shit happens, get over it” She doesn’t see what's wrong with her statements. FML

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Way to miss the point

By Anonymous - 01/12/2024 17:00 - United States

Today, I apologized to my mother-in-law for not wanting to be around the family babies while I am struggling with infertility. She responded that that was OK but that I should still really meet my baby nephew, because, "He is the most precious baby ever!" FML

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#Childfree

By ChildFree - 20/04/2015 23:55 - Saudi Arabia - Riyadh

Today, my mother-in-law asked me when my fiancé and I were going to start having children. When I told her we weren't planning on having any, she went on a tirade about how selfish and cold I am for denying her precious grandchildren. Now she hates me. FML

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By Anonymous - 04/08/2012 06:00 - United States - Santa Fe

Today, it was my wedding day. When my soon-to-be-husband was saying his vows, he didn't say my name. He said his mother's. FML

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coldashell 23

Thursday 22 March 2012 22:22

Your child will hate you

Feklfekl2222 32

Thursday 22 March 2012 22:21

Ermintrude is a name that you joke like ethelburga not one you name a child, they would be teased.

Comments

sparkrok 8

Thursday 22 March 2012 22:51

Can anyone say "Boy Named Sue"?

ShadesOfBlue5 9

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:03

I like the way you think

UltimateGIRness 16

Thursday 3 May 2012 22:54

Lol.thats my favorite song.love the way your thinkin here

DjeePee 24

Thursday 22 March 2012 22:53

Auwch. Your husband really stabbed you in the back, didn't he? Even if he truely thinks Ermintrude is a cool name, he should have discussed it with you and only with you.

keto1010 0

Thursday 22 March 2012 22:54

Your fault for getting married to a moron that would like that name

kelsojww 0

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:01

Good thing mothers opinion is the only one who matters. At least in this situation lol

micahsmommy 13

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:01

Aww little Ermy! She won't need years of therapy...

craftyones 0

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:02

It's not about her. I have a question, what name did she give him.

skyeyez9 24

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:59

Probably Ermindude

KuchkaNumberOne 2

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:02

Please, for your child's sake, don't give in to your mother in law and husband!

Dracoboxer357 35

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:04

OP, if you don't want to name your child something, then don't. Remind your husband he married you, not his mother and he should be supporting You in this, not her. Stick to your guns, and be firm yet mature. Caving in just because she wants you to won't earn you a lick of the respect she seems to not have for you anyways. :p You said no: That's the end of the conversation.