Kids: Today, I had to yet again tell my mother-in-law that I wasn't...

By futuremum - 22/03/2012 17:14 - United Kingdom - Bristol

Today, I had to yet again tell my mother-in-law that I wasn't going to name my unborn baby "Ermintrude" after her late mother. My husband told me to stop being difficult, and that he agrees that it would be nice. FML

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By baby names - 23/09/2018 22:00

Today, I helped a lady give birth on the train. She was so happy she asked if she could name the baby after me, but as I told her my name she visibly turned her nose up at it, turned to her husband, and suggested naming it after his grandfather instead. FML

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By bluebride - 03/02/2010 17:58 - United States

Today, I got married. My mother told me to stop being difficult, because she was the mother of the bride, and it was her day to shine. FML

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By Anonymous - 03/12/2013 00:56 - Mexico - Distrito Federal

Today, I opened my heart to my father-in-law, telling him how he was a very good example for us and how his name would be great for our first born son, he interrupted, saying, "Cut the cheesy crap, now." FML

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By Username - 06/11/2010 17:58 - France

Today, at my cousin's baby shower, there was a discussion on what to name the baby. When the name Jacqueline was brought up, I made a face and exclaimed, "Ugh, I hate that name!" I was then informed that's the name of my cousin's mother-in-law. She definitely heard me. FML

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By Anonymous - 04/06/2009 11:11 - United States

Today, I was reading through a local wedding mag's advice page. A mother-in-law to be was writing about how to handle wanting her son to break off his engagement. I thought, "Wow. That must suck. I'm glad I like my mother-in-law to be." And then I saw her name. FML

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By Anonymous - 05/09/2018 08:30 - United States - Sewell

Today, my mother-in-law insisted we go to a baby clothing store. When I reminded her that I don’t want children, she sat on the floor, crying, kicking and screaming. She then said I was denying her grandchildren because I hate her. Well, I didn’t… FML

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Classic narcissist

By Vanessa - 28/04/2021 13:59

Today, my mother-in-law had a bitch fit because I had a miscarriage and my husband and I are having a difficult time. It’s her birthday and she said I should, “stop being an attention-hogging drama queen” and that, “shit happens, get over it” She doesn’t see what's wrong with her statements. FML

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Way to miss the point

By Anonymous - 01/12/2024 17:00 - United States

Today, I apologized to my mother-in-law for not wanting to be around the family babies while I am struggling with infertility. She responded that that was OK but that I should still really meet my baby nephew, because, "He is the most precious baby ever!" FML

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#Childfree

By ChildFree - 20/04/2015 23:55 - Saudi Arabia - Riyadh

Today, my mother-in-law asked me when my fiancé and I were going to start having children. When I told her we weren't planning on having any, she went on a tirade about how selfish and cold I am for denying her precious grandchildren. Now she hates me. FML

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By Anonymous - 04/08/2012 06:00 - United States - Santa Fe

Today, it was my wedding day. When my soon-to-be-husband was saying his vows, he didn't say my name. He said his mother's. FML

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coldashell 23

Thursday 22 March 2012 22:22

Your child will hate you

Feklfekl2222 32

Thursday 22 March 2012 22:21

Ermintrude is a name that you joke like ethelburga not one you name a child, they would be teased.

Comments

pagullarka 9

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:38

Just name him Eminem close

Fangsnuzzles 8

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:40

Hey, at least you can give her a nickname! Ermie? Rude Trude? Maybe not.

Foxy_On_Fire 21

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:47

No no but Hell to the **** no

millie1267 4

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:49

U could always put that as a middle name and not actually use it..

MoogleSam 8

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:51

Tell your mother-in-law that it is your child your choice and tell your husband that you are NOT giving YOUR child a BIZARRE name which will cause YEARS of bullying for YOUR child. An uncommon name? Sure. A rare name that though used infrequently is still known by people? Go ahead. Even go with a strange spelling of a common name if you like but do NOT give your kids names that you know no one will have heard of such as 'Ermintrude'.

Jewnut 0

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:52

Maybe you can shorten it up or change it a little and make it a nick name?

THExistentialist 13

Thursday 22 March 2012 23:58

agree to use it, or a version of it, as w middle name. I got my first name from my great-grandmother (Lillian) then my middle name from her daughters middle name, my grandma, (Marie). maternal side. then the same pattern went for my little sister only using the paternal side-on Ellenor Ruth. we love our old-lady names. but your family doesn't have the taste mine did in names. maybe find out what Ermintrude's middle name was?