An unknown phone, in someone else's desk, and your first instinct is to answer it? Really? I'm not saying that the OP deserves it because she answered an unknown phone in her husbands desk. However, I do feel that she had no right to answer the phone. It was obviously not her phone, the call would clearly not be for her, and the phone most likely has voice mail which will deal with messages. She had discovered the cause of the vibrating and that was as far as she needed to go. At the absolute most she should have shut the phone off when the ringing ended if the vibrating was that annoying. She could have asked her husband about it later. Yes, he most likely would have lied, but still, not her phone, not her business. Had it been a work related phone she could have made him look bad by answering it or caused problems if she had messed up repeating the message voice mail could have dealt with.

Hell yea I would answer it!!! It's an UNKNOWN phone in MY HUSBAND'S desk!!! . . . And to add to it (My name isn't MRS Pegg for no reason) when you have a gut feeling that something is going on with your husband and another woman, you LOOK for a way to catch his lying ass! So yep, I would answer it. My first instinct (Which I should have stated this fact in the first place) was "Hmm, this phone could be lost and the person calling is looking for it". Call me ridiculous, I dont care either way. (And in no way was this comment meant to be taken bitchy, rude or any other choice word you would like to use. I just simply find it funny that you wrote a comment as long as this one about my idea to answer it.)

Your an idiot. There MARRIED. she has every right to answer the phone. You need shot.

139- You act like she is his coworker or neighbor. If my husband! has a freakin' vibrator and ringing mystery phone in his desk I have every right to answer the phone and shove that vibrator in his face to ask why the **** he has one.

175, you need English lessons. And 139, they're married. He shouldn't have secrets much less be cheating on her. She had every right to answer that phone. Who wouldn't?

180) He didn't have a vibrator... the phone was vibrating. 0_o

Her husband, her business. You can't have a marriage or a relationship if either one thinks me instead of we

i agree with you, you do have every right too. Saying that, i hope your boyfriend (if you have one) see's this and never does that, if he does.. tear him a new one lol

Being married does not mean that EVERYTHING is suddenly your business. People always have secrets, people always need space. People always need stuff that is just theirs. I pity the husbands/wives of anyone who says her husband, her business because those are probably the types of spouses who snoop through their partners stuff and get pissed off when they find something they don't like. I would never go snooping through my husbands stuff and I fully expect him to stay the hell out of stuff that is specifically mine, unless it's already been discussed.

And have her just be cheated on for the rest of her life? You're stupid.

Everything was fine until she opened that drawer? So she had a healthy relationship with her husband until she found a cellphone that mysteriously appeared out of nowhere and some lady called who immediatly turned into his mistress and her husband turned into a cheater? Either this was your conclusion or you're really that stupid. She was with a cheating bastard of a husband and she found out by some vibrating phone call who turned out to be the mistress. Just stop saying rediculous crap like this, you sound ignorant.

Had she not answered the phone, she never would have known that her husband is a cheating bastard...now she had to deal with all the mental anguish, stress, and self pitty... As any situation goes there are multiple ways of dealing with it, viewing it, etc The saying ignorance is bliss is just for these situations By your logic you would have the innocent's life destroyed statistically for most of the rest of her life Yes he's a tard, but had she not snooped her life wouldn't be over

I guess living a lie is so much better than growing from the truth. But I guess based on your picture I can guess that you think you are some suave god's gift to women type of man, who takes no responsibility for his actions. Who am I to judge though?

Her life isn't over. But her marriage possibly is. Women can survive without men, in case you didn't realize. Yes it sucks to find out the man you love is cheating. But it's better to find out then to be lied to any longer.

ya stop snooping! probably makes you guys even, women are such ******

Doing the other side of the FML is so last season.

Who are you, the FML comment police? I say what the **** I want to say. All you had to do was ignore my comment. FOH!

There there child. They have anger management classes in almost all cities. They are free and anonymous. We can get you the help you need.

Yes, because it is best everyone be wilfully ignorant, right?